What would you do in my place?
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| Wed, 08-20-2003 - 3:20pm |
I received an email from the woman who's MIL is "magic" and I am now stressing about it. It was so kind of her to think about us and pray for us, but her instructions were very specific and I don't know if we can pull them off. She said to bd before 7am on Friday, both us had to climax, I had to lie on my right side afterwards, etc. I think this may be very difficult to do because dh and I both work at 8am and I don't think he will be thrilled to get up early just to bd. And if I tell him I want to do it because of a prediction from someone I don't even know, he will think I am nuts! And I'm not sure we can pull of the climaxing part (he won't have any trouble, but I might!).
I want to do it, especially because when I think about her MIL praying for us I get a warm feeling all over (I am not at all a religious person). And if I don't I will wonder forever if I missed my one chance!
Any feedback? Am I just finding yet another TTC thing to obsess over?
Carolyn


You should get yourself started first- if ya know what I mean- you will have a better chance of climaxing then since he probably won't be thinking about you too much. I wouldn't tell him- if he's anything like my DH you won't be getting ANY then. Then- you'll have to go to work on him- be forward(ah-hem....do you know what I mean?) wake him up that way and he will just be so horned up he won't care what time it is- you could turn the clock so he doesn't even see the time to get mad about it? Take matters into your own hands- don't rely on him- he'll love it I'm sure.
Without saying it straight out- do you know what I'm saying? Blushing-lol!!!
Tara
Tara~ co-cl of Pregnant after TTC
I know that this can be a touchy subject with a DH who likes to get his AM sleep... I'm there with ya.
However, I'd really try having a serious conversation with him about this. If he is totally with you in TTC, he should see this as a possibility. Tell him it's not like you're trying to do this every morning for two weeks... it's a one stab deal. And the possibility of getting pregnant from this should make it very do-able.
lots of luck... and keep us posted.
Cathy
Stacy
Thanks for your suggestions!
Best of luck to you! Hope you pull it off!!
Chrissy
I will add.... if you do some of the work while your are .... um, close.... then you might be more likely to climax as well.
Good luck! I will add my thoughts for you on Friday!
Teera
Thanks for all the feedback and thanks for not thinking I am a silly dork!
Carolyn
Tara~ co-cl of Pregnant after TTC