When you know they dont deserve it

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When you know they dont deserve it
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Sun, 03-22-2009 - 5:49pm
Nothing makes me more emotional and upset then when I see a woman who is a drug addict and they are pregnant. I try to do everything by the book and still no luck for me... Frustrated..


Edited 3/22/2009 7:36 pm ET by friedgrice
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Sun, 03-22-2009 - 6:11pm
Tell me about it!!



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Sun, 03-22-2009 - 6:18pm
I'm so with you on that!
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Sun, 03-22-2009 - 7:28pm

I feel your pain.

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Sun, 03-22-2009 - 10:02pm
Wow, I hear ya! I see it all the time! I'm actually about to call CPS on one girl I know because she is an addict, uses drugs in front of her 3 young children (she's only 20) and also physically abuses them, and neglects them so she can go have sex with whatever guy she brings over. I'm not a fan of ripping kids away from their parents, but I'd feel awful if something happened to them and I hadn't at least tried to stop it.
Yet... I'm married, drug and alcohol free, and very anti-violence. And I've been ttc for 3 years now (In that time, she's popped out 2!). Life just doesn't seem fair sometimes, does it?



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Tue, 03-24-2009 - 2:17pm

I absolutely feel your pain... I have my husband's nephew living with us because his sister is too busy partying to take care of her child... and yet we have been TTC for over a year now. He is such a sweet kid and I can't understand how she had a child without even trying and here I am... crying my eyes out everytime AF shows up....


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Wed, 03-25-2009 - 12:56am

I completely agree!! I had mental breakdown on friday about that because I was a week and a half late and AF still showed up and my blood test was negative (dang it) and that day I found out that my sister in

 
 
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Registered: 02-25-2008
Wed, 03-25-2009 - 12:43pm

What I don't understand is why people get pregnant and then they continue to smoke cigerettes. I know they aren't as bad as illegal drugs but it's still the same for me. Anything bad for your body is bad for your baby.


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Wed, 03-25-2009 - 1:16pm

I hear what you're screamin'!