Why when I post does no one......

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-04-2003
Why when I post does no one......
18
Wed, 08-06-2003 - 12:47pm
respond to me??? Just wondering...maybe it is because I dont post that often..I reply to few posts...I dont know...I feel lost. Maybe my questions are just difficult. Just feelin a little down. Sorry....

Jenn

Pages

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-15-2003
Wed, 08-06-2003 - 12:56pm
I know exactly what you are talking about. I go through the same thing. It almost feels like you don't belong to the group. I remember one time I posted on how I lost my uncle and got a BFN. I got 4 replies and someone who lost their furbaby got like 20. Maybe we should make sure we read eachothers and reply even if it is just to say "Hi". I am glad I am not alone feeling alone. Good Luck!

Tammy

TTC#2

C4 CD22 6DPO

DS 3.5

Photobucket

Avatar for denoyerj
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-07-2003
Wed, 08-06-2003 - 12:59pm
I experience the same thing a lot of times. When I first came to the boards I tried to reply to every post thinking that would happen for me, but it never did. I wish I had some answers for you, but I don't. I will look to post a reply to you whenever I can.

((((HUGS))))

~Julie ttc#1 c14cd26 or c15cd1

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-30-2003
Wed, 08-06-2003 - 1:03pm
Oh Jenn, I'm so sorry Sweetie!!! Huge (((((((Hugs))))))))))) I always try to respond to posts that seem to go unanswered- mostly this happens because women can't offer any ideas or answers so feel better it's not to post than to confuse you more...but I try to even if I don't know. I've been so busy with work and ds being sick these past couple of weeks that I've not been on the board as much as I'd like to be, need to be. Please don't feel down and please, please don't leave....I'm here for you, we're all here for you!!! Now, could you repost your questions to me, and I'll come back and give you some answers/ideas? More ((((hugs))))) LOLove, Connie
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-26-2003
Wed, 08-06-2003 - 1:04pm
Jenn,

Please don't feel bad. I don't get very many replies either. Of course,I don't post as much as many of the ladies do :) but I do read a lot. I'm new to ttc (c1) and I don't usually know the answers to questions so I follow a lot of threads to learn. I wonder if another thing could be turnover on the board and the different sections. With people moving around all the time, maybe they miss things.

Anyway, hang in there and keep at it.

(((hugs)))

Anna

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-04-2003
Wed, 08-06-2003 - 1:04pm
Tammy and Julie...

Thanks sooooo very much for responding. It makes me feel a little better knowing that I am not the only one...but then again it makes me feel bad that there are others going through it. Well thanks anyway...good luck with everything! I will try to reply to yours also.

Jenn

Avatar for soprano1965
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2003
Wed, 08-06-2003 - 1:06pm
as with most of the PP message boards, there are definite "inner circles" or cliques or whatever you want to call it. These people often will post to one another most of the time. I do not consider myself in this boards inner circle, so I usually get very few responses, and I feel like often I have gone out of my way to take my precious time to research people's questions and answer them, and get nothing back. Plus this is a very busy board. Not much you can do about it, unfortunately.

Kim

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-28-2003
Wed, 08-06-2003 - 1:07pm
Hi,

I think everyone deals with this every so often. Sometimes if I read a post that I can't relate to I won't reply b/c I don't think I would help. But I know sometimes it is nice to just get someone to say hi. If you feel the need to talk, I am a great pen pal. I have made lots of E-mail friends here, and it is great to just chit chat back & forth. So you feel the need to talk and share please please E-mail me. Beachcomber421@aol.com. I hope you feel better soon! Take care!

Love and hugs,

Stacy

ttc#2,C5,CD25,4dpo
Lilypie 1st Birthday Ticker Lilypie 3rd Birthday Ticker
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-08-2003
Wed, 08-06-2003 - 1:09pm
I also think that the questions/posts you can see when you log on are the most recent, and posts made earlier get bumped off. I am so sorry that your questions went unanswered and that you feel unsupported. I was a lurker for a while, I am now posting more often. I have found that even when I get few responses, The support I get is great. Lets look out for each other's posts.

Tee

TTC #1, C3, CD22

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-08-2003
Wed, 08-06-2003 - 1:12pm
Jenn,

PS- What are your "stats". I am expectimg AF 8/12, hoping she'll stay away. Is your cycle close to mine?

tee

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-04-2003
Wed, 08-06-2003 - 1:13pm
Once again to everyone who replied....thanks so much. I feel good that people replied to this one...hehe. I wish all of you the best and I will try to offer my support more also, so that people dont feel this way often.

Jenn

TTC#2 c1 cd?

Pages