will b heartbroken if AF shows up

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Registered: 05-01-2011
will b heartbroken if AF shows up
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Mon, 07-25-2011 - 2:53pm
Hi ladies, i just need to vent for a second. I have been ttc for about 5 years now without luck. It hurts me too c all of my friends n family have kids n i have none. Sometimes i feel like I'm about to lose my mind because I'm obsessed with having a child of my own. People always tell me i worry about it to much n if i forget about it then it will happen but i feel like its easy for them to say that because they have their children. Anyway i started tracking my cycle n me an my other half had intercouse 2days before and after ovalation so now all i can do is hope for the best because the Dr said everything is fine and she don't understand y I'm not getting pregnant. AF is suppose to show up this week and i have already started cramping so I'm not sure if she is coming or not but i will b heartbroken if she does whoa! Now i feel better cause i just had to get dat off my chest.
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Registered: 03-01-2011
Mon, 07-25-2011 - 6:33pm
Sorry you've been through such a struggle. It really helps to vent to people that "get it". Are you charting bbt? What tests has your dr run?

Fxd af doesnt find you this month...
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Registered: 12-14-2009
Mon, 07-25-2011 - 7:08pm
If you haven't consulted your GYN yet, I would definitely mention to them how long you've been trying without success. I know it's really hard, especially when it feels like you are surrounded by success stories but there is hope. As the PP mentioned, if you haven't using a BBT yet, it's a great tool for a lot of women. There's also all sorts of different tricks of the trade you can try to increase things like luteral phases or cervical mucus, etc. I hope this is your month and you don't have to resort to any of it, but we're all here for you. Good Luck!

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