So aggrevated!

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So aggrevated!
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Fri, 10-07-2011 - 2:36pm

I am so irritated with DH. Neither of us knows what his problem is. We BD'd Sat morning, Sunday night, and Monday night. Took Tues off and figured he'd be more than ready to go again on Wed. Nope, we tried and NOTHING. Tried again last night, and NOTHING again! I was almost in tears last night. He's the one that's been bugging for months asking "when can we have a baby? when can we have a baby?", and now this has happened at least once each of the 3 months we've been trying. I've tried not to be real obvious and be like "hey I'm ovulating, you have to have sex with me NOW" and put extra pressure on him or anything, but geez. Kinda need the swimmers to have any chance of this happening.

I haven't officially O'd yet. I O'd on CD18 the first month and CD15 last month, and now today is CD18 again. I think it may happen today or tomorrow, but who knows. Tomorrow is DH's bday so I'll try to jump him first thing in the morning lol (he works late on Friday nights and we work opposite shifts so most likely we won't even see each other today). I hope we don't miss our chance this month because of this.... :smileysad:

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Fri, 10-07-2011 - 6:49pm

So sorry, Shigh. *hugs*

I know the BDing thing can get super stressful. Last month wasn't so bad for me and DB, I tried a more laid back approach and it did seem to help. I kind of just didn't really hint as to when I was going to be ovulating, I just acted like I really wanted to BD and he went for it, haha. FX'd you get that BD in before O!!

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Fri, 10-07-2011 - 7:25pm
Bummer :( Fx'd you guys can sneak in some good birthday sex & that does the trick. Hopefully we all get knocked up soon -I'm sick of ttc sex!!
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Fri, 10-07-2011 - 8:59pm
Man...I was hoping it was a one time thing each month and that he had gotten that one time over with. I vote for the alcohol again!
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Mon, 10-10-2011 - 3:12pm
Angela I'm TOTALLY sick of TTC sex! I can only imagine how sick of it YOU must be!

So, I did jump him first thing Sat morning and this time he managed to get the job done, lol. I was kind of hoping that last night I'd be able to convince him to give me a massage and then do some more BDing, but he decided to be a grumpy a$$ all day instead.

Still no sign of O and this is CD21. I'm getting really irritated. See my post above in "Look at my chart."
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Mon, 10-10-2011 - 3:23pm
I think the late O is stress...but I told you....you are stuck waiting with me now!! I needed a cycle buddy. haha :)
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Mon, 10-10-2011 - 3:31pm
You jinxed me Amanda! lol
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Mon, 10-10-2011 - 8:21pm
That sux! Try and seduce him. Maybe a sexy outfit???
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Mon, 10-10-2011 - 8:41pm
I agree with mom of twins. We were stuck in a rut. I am obsessed with pinterest and I found dating divas. They "date" their husbands. It has kind of cute home dates. I did one with my husband and he loved it! Also, once I dressed up in one of his button up shirts and he went crazy. I try to make that an effort each cycle because TTC sex is exhausting!!
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Tue, 10-11-2011 - 12:00pm
Yeah, I don't think so. I tried that our first month of trying. Texted him to tell him to hurry home. Candles, lingerie, the whole bit. I think that put too much pressure on him. That was the first time he had the "no O" problem since we started TTC. Right now I'm just so tired of sex, period. :-P
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Tue, 10-11-2011 - 5:17pm

My husband put together a beautiful "date" for us last night.

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