Great update on Nichole.

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Great update on Nichole.
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Wed, 09-28-2011 - 11:38am
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Wed, 09-28-2011 - 11:54am
Thank you so much for that update! I can't believe that the nurses had her worried into a tizzy and things aren't even anywhere near as bad as they were thinking.
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Wed, 09-28-2011 - 3:33pm

Yes, I just spoke to Nicolle and it was a very incompetent nurse who was giving her misinformation. I'm so angry that she and her husband were in such turmoil because of incompetence. It's inexcusable. Anyway, she and her little one are doing well and hopefully will be going home soon. Again, I apologize for the post yesterday. I was going on information I received that I thought to be true. I just wanted people praying for them.

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Wed, 09-28-2011 - 4:35pm
Dani -while we all understand that you wanted people to be thinking of Nicolle, I think it's best for everyone if we keep these kinds of updates over at PAL, and if Nicolle needs to come to TTCAM for support, she can do that on her own.

A post linking to the PAL update in the BFP/Beta section would probably be a better place for things like yesterday's post.

Thanks.
Kelly, mom to 4 year old Lexi, wife to Rob TTC Number 2 since April 2010, with a loss in June 2010 at 4.5 weeks, and a loss in April 2011 at 8 weeks (possibly ectopic). Saw the RE in May 2011, we were moving forward with testing and an IUI when we
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Wed, 09-28-2011 - 5:36pm

I know...in hindsight, I shouldn't have posted here at TTCAM, but I was just so sad and concerned for her and

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Wed, 09-28-2011 - 5:54pm
I understand where you were coming from, but unfortunately, the post upset some people who then contacted me to ask to have it removed. We need to think of how posts like that are going to effect current members of the TTCAM board, and not just what the individual posting the message is hoping to get out of the situation.

My message to you was just a reminder that pregnancy updates are best left to PAL and the BFP/Beta updates section, and that if Nicolle was ready to come back to TTCAM, of course we would be here to support her and help her through a loss. As you know, this board is for women who need support when they are trying to conceive after a loss. PAL is and was the appropriate place to post a message asking people to support Nicolle thru a scary situation.

Nobody said that you aren't welcome to post here. I never said that or implied that, so please don't accuse me of doing so by posting comments like "be assured ... I won't be posting here anymore." It's not about you Dani, it's about the support that the TTCAM members need.
Kelly, mom to 4 year old Lexi, wife to Rob TTC Number 2 since April 2010, with a loss in June 2010 at 4.5 weeks, and a loss in April 2011 at 8 weeks (possibly ectopic). Saw the RE in May 2011, we were moving forward with testing and an IUI when we
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Wed, 09-28-2011 - 6:20pm

I wasn't trying to accuse you of anything...I'm sorry if it came off that way. I guess I'm just uncomfortable posting here now, that's all.

I know what this board is for...for support. And that's all I was trying to do for Nicolle.

Sorry.....