facebook & baby pix...

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Tue, 02-07-2012 - 12:17pm

very hard to see.

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Tue, 02-07-2012 - 6:35pm
I'm sorry, Kiki. It's so tough. I finally am getting to enjoy seeing babies again. But, it's on the pretense that I will be PG soon. If I hit my due date and am not pg then I will definitely fall apart! How are the wedding plans coming? Cali, huh? That will be fun!
Rachel Mom to five great kiddos and one angel in heaven (MC @ 9 weeks) Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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Tue, 02-07-2012 - 7:46pm

I feel exactly the same as you!!

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Fri, 02-10-2012 - 1:10am
I understand that 100% :( .. I often take breaks from fb for that matter :( ... Hang in there girl things have to get better I keep telling myself that

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Fri, 02-10-2012 - 8:49am
I completely h derstand. I took a FB break right after the m/c because a friend announced she was pregnant and due 2 weeks after I was. She was one of the few who knew about my loss and she didn't even tell me personally, just started posting pics of BFPs and USs....heartbreaking. My nephew (3 months old) and sister actually live with us and I'm his babysitter while shes in school every day. I'm usually fine with it but there are moment it hurts.

(((HUGS))). I hope seeing and hugging your little nephew will make you happy! And the wedding of course!

Jenn (28) & DH Zach (28)
Married 9/24/2005

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Fri, 02-10-2012 - 11:09am

Very insensitive of your friend!

I, honestly, don't think women (who haven't had a m/c) understand how hard & hurtful it is, when you have a m/c?

My best friend (when I told her about losing baby), just told me, DF & I can have lots of great sex to try to have another one?!

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Fri, 02-10-2012 - 12:13pm
Ya that comment annoys me to. Though I almost laughed when a coworker said something like that to me. I'm a nurse so im lucky and my coworkers are very caring and understanding of the whole situation. One of the older ladies (who I know lost 1 pregnancy at 12 weeks and lost one of her twins after having them 10 weeks early, so she understands) gave me a big hug, told me info ever need to talk shell listen and them smiled and said "plus, it's always fun to try again" and winked. Lol. I think because I know she understands I found it funny. Someone else may have offended me.

Jenn (28) & DH Zach (28)
Married 9/24/2005