Friend has the same due date as mine would have been.

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Friend has the same due date as mine would have been.
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Fri, 09-07-2012 - 11:05pm

I went onto facebook today and my friend who went to college with me has anounced she is pregant with the same due date that I would have had.  I havent been upset all month but now I have been crying all day.  I can't help but be so mad at the unfairness of it all I guess. I have only had one mc and I know a lot of you have been through more, so I hate to complain, but I am just miserable.  No one I know can understand.   We are TTC now, my period is late but I am seeing negative ept after another.  I would be so thrilled if it turned out I was pregnant but this experience has really poisoned the water, so to speak.  I would just be paranoid that a miscarriage is around the corner.  I have hidden my friend from showing up in my news feed and I can only hope that keeps me from getting depressed again.  blah.  Thanks for letting vent.

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Registered: 04-15-2012
Sat, 09-08-2012 - 12:44am
I have a due date of 9/11 coming up, and had 5 friends have babies in the past month! I'm still ttc, and feel like I'm trying to play catch up or something. They all keep posting pics of their family and saying sweet things, and its really hard to go through. I had to start seeing my psychologist after the last of the friends delivered last week. It was just too much. They all ask me questions like..r u guys going to try again? I want to answer with something smart, but bitemy tongue. I realize they don't understand, just like your friend doesn't. Oh, and listening to them complaining about pregnancy..geez! Anyhoo, just know that there's a great group here u can always vent to, and we have all experienced this...
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Registered: 05-04-2012
Sat, 09-08-2012 - 7:15am
It can be so difficult facing that. Someone I know has a due date the day after my last should be due and another on my husbands bday 2 weeks later. They are hidden on my news feed as well because I know all I will think when they post something is that should be me. Please don't feel like your complaining because your not. You need to get these things out and work through them. We are all here for you.
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Sun, 09-09-2012 - 9:26pm
I feel for you! My sister Gave birth within one week of my D&C. Several friends are pregnant and due the same month as I would have been.. I hate those reminders! :smileysad: