Long Time

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Registered: 05-17-2010
Long Time
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Mon, 11-08-2010 - 10:20pm

Hello Ladies. It has been a loooong time since I have visted this board (i started finding it very hard to cope). Well it has now been a year since my mc (it took over a year to get preg in the first place)

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Registered: 08-16-2007
In reply to: bsmith21686
Mon, 11-08-2010 - 10:36pm

Oh my. I am so so very sorry that someone would be so cold and heartless as to suggest that you aborted your pregnancy, when that is clearly not the case. I hope you can set the record straight with her, because that is just plain WRONG! Obviously she's never had a pregnancy loss, or known someone who has. I cant even understand why she still has any friends at all, if thats the way she talks about others.

Im really sorry that its been a year post m/c and that youre still TTC. I know how it can put a huge strain on your marriage, as well as your social life and other relationships. Men just cant understand the drive and deep desire to have a baby as well as us women do. And there is bound to be a lot of stress and tension while you are TTC.

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Registered: 03-01-2010
In reply to: bsmith21686
Mon, 11-08-2010 - 11:29pm

It is so hard going through a m/c and on top of it having such a horrible lie spread. I am sorry for your loss and the fact that it is a year later and you are still not pg makes it even harder. I had a m/c back in March and my angel baby's due date is this thursday, Nov. 11th, we are in our 3rd clomid cycle, 8 months and still no bfp again.

 
 
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Registered: 12-30-2006
In reply to: bsmith21686
Tue, 11-09-2010 - 7:35am

Wow.

--Wendy
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Registered: 02-19-2007
In reply to: bsmith21686
Tue, 11-09-2010 - 8:24am

Im so sorry.

Ive also being trying for 18 cycles now I think. Its such a long hard road. Are there other tests your insurance will cover?

Also, is completely normal for it to take 1 yr to get pregnant. As frustrating as that is.

As far a high school friend making that comment, dont give it an ounce of thought. What a horrible person to say such a thing. Its insane and not worth your energy. I had a friend do that to me as well when I was a lot younger & wasn't even pregnant. People who say such things are going thru a bad place of their own.

hang in there

*mindy*
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Registered: 05-17-2010
In reply to: bsmith21686
Tue, 11-09-2010 - 9:00am

Thank you ladies! I love the idea of talking to a 3rd party...however, we don't have insurance, and everything we do comes outta pocket...and that is the main thing that is causing problems between the hubby and I...I LOVE to do research and I am always finding new things to try and that has taken its toll on us when you add it to the HUGE bills we have for all the test and meds that we have tried thus far...As for the little girl that was running her mouth....the friend that it was told to handle it for me (she had had a mc herself) I am very thankful that she stood up for me b/c we are no longer talking due to some of her life choices...I am still upset that it was said about me in the first place, b/c I no longer live there and I have no idea how far the rumor went...its just upsetting b/c both of our families still live there...Anyways, today is a new day, and I am thinking that I am going to back off everything and let nature run its course for a month or two...with all the meds and test that I have been on and gone through, I'm sure my body would LOVE the break....plus the hoilday season is stressful enough without adding my fertility issues to it! Thank you again for you kind words!

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Registered: 09-24-2004
In reply to: bsmith21686
Tue, 11-09-2010 - 10:01am

((((HUGS)))) I'm so sorry!!!

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