Stopping in to say hi

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Registered: 01-23-2005
Stopping in to say hi
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Sat, 01-21-2012 - 9:02pm

hi all,

I know i haven't been in much. I had stepped back from everything related to babies/babymaking to take stock of what is important in my life right now.

We have been trying to get pregnant for a while since last February.. in that time I've gotten pregnant twice and lost both. I have therefore come to a decision that is both relieving and heart breaking at the same time.

I am done actively trying, I'm going to discuss with my dr my options since it has been a year almost of TTC and see where we can go but I'm done with the testing, the temping, the tracking and everything else that makes the most natural thing in the world into a science experiment.

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Registered: 10-20-2008
Sun, 01-22-2012 - 9:54am
I'm sorry your journey has brought you to this point. I hope you find some peace in your decision, and maybe get a lovely surprise along the way.

Shawn 
Mom to DS, July 2009
Expecting our little girl after three m/c - EDD 11/29/12

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Registered: 01-23-2005
Sun, 01-22-2012 - 4:00pm

hi,

Thanks, I'm hoping the same thing, but with charting everything, making sure that hubby are in the same place at the same time, It's just too stressful, so I'm thinking that cutting out the stress, and enjoying myself and concentrating on other things, it might actually happen that I get a sticky baby leading to a take home baby..

As heart wrenching as it was to come to this decision, (especially

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