Struggling with decision!!

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Struggling with decision!!
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Wed, 02-15-2012 - 3:21pm

Ever since our m/c a few months ago....at first, I was 'hell bent' to try again for a baby & I REALLY wanted one..... since I got pg. really easy, 1st try (while statistics & doctors say how hard it is to even get pg., in your 40's)!!

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Thu, 02-16-2012 - 2:54am

That's a very difficult decision, the fear can be all consuming but so can the desire to have another baby. The trick is to weigh up what would be the hardest, to never have another child or to experience another loss. Hope you can come to a decision and be happy with it *hugs*

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Thu, 02-16-2012 - 11:25am
This is tough, I am sure many woman have felt the same way you are feeling now. Whatever decision you make will be the right one for you. We are here for you.
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Thu, 02-16-2012 - 5:20pm

thanks for the replies.....okay, this is what I am going to do: Try only one more time.

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Fri, 02-17-2012 - 2:19pm
Kiki, I'm sorry you are stressing about it. I know it's scary. Now I'm 39, so almost 40 and my doctor said it was unlikely for me to miscarry again. So, I'm holding on to that. That's all I can do. I hope you feel better soon!
Rachel Mom to five great kiddos and one angel in heaven (MC @ 9 weeks) Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers