Not sure what message board I belong on.

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Registered: 06-19-2005
Not sure what message board I belong on.
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Wed, 11-24-2010 - 10:03pm

I got AF today, knew I would, I just feel like giving up, the efforts and acupuncture and OPK and everything seems so futile and a big waste of money.

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Registered: 07-28-2009
Thu, 11-25-2010 - 6:26am

Oh now you stop it! You absolutely belong here! Your situation is no different than a missed m/c where a woman has to take medication to induce a m/c. It's the same thing. In neither situation did the mother CHOOSE to abort her baby. The baby was NOT going to make it and unless someone is suggesting you walk around with a non-viable pregnancy, then there was NO other choice. Even if for whatever reason you decide to stop all heroic measures regarding TTC (OPK's, accupunture etc) this would still be the board for you. A lot of us here are NTNP (not trying not preventing). And I can personally attest to you that no other TTC board is going to be able to understand what it feels like to have lost a pg you wanted so badly - no matter how badly they try (and they will). The Abortion board will not undertand, neither will TTC over 40. The Stillbirth board will CERTAINLY understand your loss but it's not really the same thing, is it? Please, grab a cup of coffee and have a seat. :)

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Registered: 12-08-2009
Thu, 11-25-2010 - 10:40am

I am so sorry about your loss and ditto to everything Michelle just said - you definately belong here with us... So please stay - we look forward to getting to know you! Hugs to you.

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Registered: 06-19-2005
Thu, 11-25-2010 - 10:48am

Ok thanks. Michelle your daughter is so cute.

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Registered: 07-28-2009
Thu, 11-25-2010 - 1:09pm
Thanks so much :)
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