back again :( x-posted on PAL

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back again :( x-posted on PAL
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Wed, 08-25-2010 - 10:44am
I just wanted to thank all of you for being so supportive and encouraging. I went in for my follow up u/s today since last week's growth seemed to slow down. I pretty much knew it was over before I even got there today and the doctor confirmed it, no heart beat anymore. I can't believe this is happening to me again. The silver lining (if you can call it that) is that I will be getting genetic testing done and a referral to a fertility clinic to try and get to the bottom of this. Two losses back to back is just awful and I don't want to go through it again. Although I know so many of you have suffered even more than me. I know that sometimes tests come back inconclusive BUT I will at least know that the doctors tried if it ends up that way. I will be getting a D&C tomorrow.
Thank you all for your strength, it is getting me through this. Right now though, I am a mess.
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Wed, 08-25-2010 - 11:03am
Oh, Julie, I'm so so sorry. I know you're devastated right now, and I hope that you get some answers out of the testing, to help you with moving forward. P&PT for you, honey....
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I'm pg with #4, with 5 1/2 losses along the way.


09/2003 -- chem pg.
10/2003 -- bfp with DS Noah (07/20/2004).
03/2005 -- chem pg.
04/2005 -- bfp with DD Catie (12/29/2005).
06/2008 -- chem pg.
07/2008 -- bfp with DS Drew (03/13/2009) and vanishing twin.
03/2010 -- bfp ending with m/c at 6 weeks.
05/2010 -- chem pg.
07/2010 -- bfp! Stick, Baby, Stick!

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Wed, 08-25-2010 - 11:05am

Oh honey...I am so sorry :(


I felt the same way when I got pg right after my first m/c. I was so hopeful because they told me my first was probably due to a chromasomal defect and the chances of having another back to back was almost non existant. Well, hey - guess what...if it was gonna happen to one in a million women, I would be that woman.


Again, I am so sorry and I hope the testing give you some answers. "You have XYZ disorder and all you need are some 123 pills and you will never m/c again!"


Wishful thinking?

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Wed, 08-25-2010 - 11:10am
I'm so sorry. I'm sure there's nothing I can say to make you feel any better. I hope you have a speedy recovery & you have your answers soon.





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Registered: 10-05-2006
Wed, 08-25-2010 - 11:12am

This is heartbreaking news and I am sad you have to go through this. I am encouraged that they will do testing and refer you to an RE.

Hang in there. I know it is super hard. :(

Christy
TTC 1st child since 2006
June 16, 2010: IUI w/ Femara BFP (Ectopic - Methotrexate shot) RE sidelined me until November cycle for next IUI :(

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Registered: 03-21-2007
Wed, 08-25-2010 - 11:15am

I am so sorry.

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Wed, 08-25-2010 - 11:52am

(((((HUGS)))) Julia,


I am so Sorry and

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Wed, 08-25-2010 - 12:23pm

Oh my gosh, Julie, I'm so very sorry that you are having to go through this again. My heart is breaking for you. I know there's nothing that I can say that will make you feel better, but I hope that everything goes well tomorrow and that your physical and emotional healing are swift. You and your family are in my thoughts...

Kathryn




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Registered: 05-24-2010
Wed, 08-25-2010 - 2:16pm

Julia,


I am so sorry to hear about all this. I know its hard I wish there was something comforting to say or do but knowing where you are, and knowing what you are going through, I know there are no words to make things better. Just know that I am here for you if you need me and I hope everything goes okay tomorrow. I am so sorry sweetie.((HUGS)).


 




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Wed, 08-25-2010 - 2:31pm
I'm really sorry, Julie :( That is heart breaking. I hope you do well with the D&C and get some answers so that you can move on to trying again.

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Wed, 08-25-2010 - 4:07pm
Julie...lots of hugs for you.

TTC #1 October/November 2009


BFP December 14th, 2009 :)


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