De-Lurking...

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Registered: 03-01-2009
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Sat, 08-07-2010 - 9:40pm

Hey ladies...I figured it was about time to de-lurk! I'm Kim, 27, and DH and I

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Registered: 12-08-2009
In reply to: kmjack831
Sat, 08-07-2010 - 9:49pm
Thanks for introducing yourself and de-lurking. I know it can be hard to get started on the board, but once you do, you realize how awesome it is to have a safe place to come and talk about life after miscarriage.
Your sig also says that you are "On hold due to deployment." Have you had to go through this latest miscarriage on your own? I am so sorry. That's got to be so hard. I hope that you are able to find supportive, loving people who can help you pick up the pieces, like you said.
Please sk if you have any questions. And check out the new folder below called "Moms Waiting for their Earth Angels". It was created especially for women who are TTCYFC :)


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Registered: 03-25-2010
In reply to: kmjack831
Sat, 08-07-2010 - 10:05pm

Kim!!!

You may recognize me from TTCYFC. I was going to mention this board to you. Looks like you decided to de-lurk and beat me to the punch. I have found this board to be fabulous and very supportive. I'm so very sorry you have reason to be here but I'm so glad to see you. I hope that makes sense. You've been in my thoughts. (((HUGS)))

Lydia

Me(30), DH(30)...Our TTC journey:

~1993: Dx of bicornuate uterus (BU) on u/s

September 2003: begin wedded bliss! (on BCP)

Fall 2007: HSG results consistent with BU

Fall 2008: here we go, bye-bye BCP

November 2008: DH in hospital, ?CP/horrid AF

Winter 2008: back on BCP

Spring/Summer 2009: last chemo, radiation for DH

January 2010: bye-bye BCP, waiting

March 2010: green light to TTC

April 2010: BFP (4/1), beta ~900 (4/2)

May 2010: m/c (5/30)

June 2010: regrouping, septum (SU) vs. BU

July 2010: looks like surgery this fall


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Registered: 03-01-2009
In reply to: kmjack831
Sat, 08-07-2010 - 10:10pm

DH is on an underway period until at least the end of September, but I call it "deployment" for the ease of describing it. lol But yes, I have gone through this alone which has been more devastating than I can even put into words. We're stationed in

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In reply to: kmjack831
Sat, 08-07-2010 - 10:12pm
Of course I recognize you! :o) It's been an overdue introduction for me over here, and while we obviously never want to even be in this situation, I'm glad to be in good company.
Photobucket Forever Missing Our Angels ~ May 2010 ~ August 2010 ~ October 2010 
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Registered: 03-25-2010
In reply to: kmjack831
Sat, 08-07-2010 - 10:23pm

Waiting is the pits. I hope your DH is able to come home soon.

Me(30), DH(30)...Our TTC journey:

~1993: Dx of bicornuate uterus (BU) on u/s

September 2003: begin wedded bliss! (on BCP)

Fall 2007: HSG results consistent with BU

Fall 2008: here we go, bye-bye BCP

November 2008: DH in hospital, ?CP/horrid AF

Winter 2008: back on BCP

Spring/Summer 2009: last chemo, radiation for DH

January 2010: bye-bye BCP, waiting

March 2010: green light to TTC

April 2010: BFP (4/1), beta ~900 (4/2)

May 2010: m/c (5/30)

June 2010: regrouping, septum (SU) vs. BU

July 2010: looks like surgery this fall


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Registered: 12-08-2009
In reply to: kmjack831
Sat, 08-07-2010 - 10:24pm

Kim, again, Im just so sorry that youre having to go through this on your own. I know that going through a miscarriage naturally makes you feel depressed, isolated, and alone... I cant imagine going through it in Hawaii without DH around. And to have to tell him through email or text... well, that just really sucks for both of you. Im sure he misses you a lot, and would be with you if he could.

Let us know if you need anything, or if there is any way that we can help!
And feel free to keep reading as much as you want. You dont always have to post, but we do like to know that you're around.



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Registered: 06-15-2010
In reply to: kmjack831
Sat, 08-07-2010 - 11:34pm
Welcome Kim! I'm so sorry that you're having to go through this again but I'm so glad that you delurked!




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Registered: 07-28-2009
In reply to: kmjack831
Sun, 08-08-2010 - 6:46am
Kim, is your DH Air Force? My Dad was Air Force and we spent many years stationed in Hawaii when I was a little girl...

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Registered: 09-12-2009
In reply to: kmjack831
Sun, 08-08-2010 - 11:02am

Kim,


Welcome to the board, and I'm so sorry you have to be here. It must be so hard for you and DH to be going through this while you're apart. The ladies here are wonderful and always so knowledgeable and supportive.


***You can ignore my post in the clomid and temps thread...you answered my question here :)

Julie  BabyFruit Ticker
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Registered: 05-17-2010
In reply to: kmjack831
Sun, 08-08-2010 - 11:13am

Hi Kim,
Welcome to the TTC boards. Sorry you have to be here, but it's a good place to hear from women that have similar life experiences. I hope you find some comfort and brevity here. I know it's really helped me.

Anne

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