First timer...im joining :(

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Registered: 01-21-2005
First timer...im joining :(
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Fri, 01-21-2011 - 6:28pm
I'm glad I found this board and plan on sticking around...but hopefully not for long. I have one DS Ayden who is 4, and 2 stepsons, one of whom is moving in with us tomorrow. I found out DH and I were expecting on Jan 2nd. I was 6 weeks yesterday, started spotting wed night. I had my versa drawn tues and they were 2194, by yesterday they dropped to 893. I am devastated, I did not expect this at all. So we are going through our 2 nd ms. First was about 7 yrs ago. Dr said it may have been a tubal...so if that's true, we are relieved, but still heartbroken. We plan on ttc again right away. So keep your Fx for us. I look forward to getting to know you ladies....

I need to get on a computer ASAP and fix my siggy (I usually post from my phone) so you can see I was due 9/15.
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Registered: 07-28-2009
Fri, 01-21-2011 - 9:15pm

Welcome, Mika...

I hate it that anyone new has to join this board but is it sad that this is one of my fav places to be? LOL

These "strangers" are my best friends! They always know the right thing to say which is NOT the case with people IRL.

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Registered: 04-13-2010
Fri, 01-21-2011 - 9:42pm
Hi, I'm sorry for your loss. You have found a wonderful group of very supportive women, with lots of knowledge and some great tips on ttc!

I hope you'll find the support you need, and I hope your stay is short.


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Registered: 03-04-2010
Fri, 01-21-2011 - 10:18pm

Mika, this is a wonderfully supportive place. I'm so sorry you're going through this and I hope you find the solace here that you need. I do hope that your stay here is short & you get your sticky BFP soon!

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Registered: 06-27-2006
Sat, 01-22-2011 - 12:28pm
I'm sorry you are having to join us! I just had my 2nd m/c in June. My first one was almost 10 years ago. It definitely is frustrating because you aren't always given the same attention by the doctors if you've had a healthy pg in between your m/c's. I'm so sorry for your loss! I hope your stay here is short and sweet!
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Registered: 01-21-2005
Sat, 01-22-2011 - 12:46pm

Hey everyone, thanks for all of your responses. I am so sorry for each and everyone of yalls losses. I hope we all get our BFP soon and those lil beans stick. I have been okay today, but I started bleeding this morning when I woke up. I expected it and am glad that is here already. I need this to be over with so we can try again. I also hate wearing pads ugh.

I hope to get a new siggy made soon, Im gonna visit that board. Again, thank you all for your kind words. This really sucks bc like I said, I did NOT expect this.. Ive had one mc before, about 7 years ago but I had no test done, I just started bleeding. So this one is a little more real to me. I have alot to be thankfu for and that is what is making me okay. I look forward to getting to know you guys! =)

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Registered: 09-24-2004
Sun, 01-23-2011 - 10:37am

Welcome and I'm so sorry for your loss.

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Registered: 05-12-2008
Sun, 01-23-2011 - 4:00pm

Hi Mika, welcome to the board.

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Registered: 10-05-2006
Sun, 01-23-2011 - 6:45pm

I am so sorry for your loss. It takes everyone by surprise and is devastating. Did they think your pregnancy was ectopic this time or last time?

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Registered: 01-21-2005
Sun, 01-23-2011 - 6:50pm
My first miscarriage happened before I went to the doctor and I was young, 19. So I honestly don't know. The OB this time seems to think it was ectopic bc he said something about my levels dropping over 50% in 48 hours, and I had a lot of stomach pains. Thank you for your kind words :) just bc you have one ectopic pregnancy doesn't mean I'm more at risk to have another do you think?
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Registered: 01-13-2004
Mon, 01-24-2011 - 8:32am

Hi Mika

Sorry to see you over here, but hopefully your stay isnt long.

Take care,

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