First timer...im joining :(

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Registered: 01-21-2005
First timer...im joining :(
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Fri, 01-21-2011 - 6:28pm
I'm glad I found this board and plan on sticking around...but hopefully not for long. I have one DS Ayden who is 4, and 2 stepsons, one of whom is moving in with us tomorrow. I found out DH and I were expecting on Jan 2nd. I was 6 weeks yesterday, started spotting wed night. I had my versa drawn tues and they were 2194, by yesterday they dropped to 893. I am devastated, I did not expect this at all. So we are going through our 2 nd ms. First was about 7 yrs ago. Dr said it may have been a tubal...so if that's true, we are relieved, but still heartbroken. We plan on ttc again right away. So keep your Fx for us. I look forward to getting to know you ladies....

I need to get on a computer ASAP and fix my siggy (I usually post from my phone) so you can see I was due 9/15.
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Registered: 06-27-2010
Tue, 01-25-2011 - 1:55am

So sorry to hear of your loss. I, too, miscarried a week ago. I was also due 9/15. I have two daughters whom I got pregnant with very easily and have never had a miscarriage. Never expected it but then again, who does. We are not necessarily trying but not preventing. Good luck to you!

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Registered: 09-02-2010
Mon, 01-24-2011 - 12:29pm

So sorry you had to find us... I had an ectopic in November and am still devistated... I had to have surgery to remove my angle and it was horriable.. My thoughts are with you and your family & I hope you don't need to stick around long!!

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Registered: 12-21-2010
Mon, 01-24-2011 - 11:53am

I'm so sorry for you loss.

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Registered: 01-13-2004
Mon, 01-24-2011 - 8:32am

Hi Mika

Sorry to see you over here, but hopefully your stay isnt long.

Take care,

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Registered: 01-21-2005
Sun, 01-23-2011 - 6:50pm
My first miscarriage happened before I went to the doctor and I was young, 19. So I honestly don't know. The OB this time seems to think it was ectopic bc he said something about my levels dropping over 50% in 48 hours, and I had a lot of stomach pains. Thank you for your kind words :) just bc you have one ectopic pregnancy doesn't mean I'm more at risk to have another do you think?
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Registered: 10-05-2006
Sun, 01-23-2011 - 6:45pm

I am so sorry for your loss. It takes everyone by surprise and is devastating. Did they think your pregnancy was ectopic this time or last time?

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Sun, 01-23-2011 - 4:00pm

Hi Mika, welcome to the board.

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Registered: 09-24-2004
Sun, 01-23-2011 - 10:37am

Welcome and I'm so sorry for your loss.

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Sat, 01-22-2011 - 12:46pm

Hey everyone, thanks for all of your responses. I am so sorry for each and everyone of yalls losses. I hope we all get our BFP soon and those lil beans stick. I have been okay today, but I started bleeding this morning when I woke up. I expected it and am glad that is here already. I need this to be over with so we can try again. I also hate wearing pads ugh.

I hope to get a new siggy made soon, Im gonna visit that board. Again, thank you all for your kind words. This really sucks bc like I said, I did NOT expect this.. Ive had one mc before, about 7 years ago but I had no test done, I just started bleeding. So this one is a little more real to me. I have alot to be thankfu for and that is what is making me okay. I look forward to getting to know you guys! =)

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Registered: 06-27-2006
Sat, 01-22-2011 - 12:28pm
I'm sorry you are having to join us! I just had my 2nd m/c in June. My first one was almost 10 years ago. It definitely is frustrating because you aren't always given the same attention by the doctors if you've had a healthy pg in between your m/c's. I'm so sorry for your loss! I hope your stay here is short and sweet!
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