First on TTC board, the Oct 2011 expecting now here in less than 4 months

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First on TTC board, the Oct 2011 expecting now here in less than 4 months
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Wed, 03-16-2011 - 7:51pm

We unofficiialy started trying mid dec (well i stopped the pill mid december anyway) and got pregnant on my second cycle.

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Registered: 02-24-2011
So sorry for your loss :( I was also due in October :( My doctor also suggested waiting one cycle, and everyone has to do what's right for them. But, I did not wait. DH and I have not prevented pregnancy in any way. I wish you the best of luck for when you do start TTC again, and hope you get your sticky bfp real soon!
Me: Amy Married to Dh since 2002 Mommy to Donovan, Quinten, Lainey, angel baby 02/11
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Registered: 04-13-2010
welcome, I'm sorry for your loss. I think the general consensus is to wait until you've had the first cycle for different reasons. Most doctors will want you to wait so they can accurately date a pregnancy. Some say you need to wait for the first or you have risk of not producing a good lining and having back to back miscarriages - some disagree with this, but ask how many women this has happened to... and how many of them blame themselves for the second m/c because they didn't wait that one cycle.

Whatever you decide, you need to do what you feel is the best for you. I wish you luck and hope your stay here is short.


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Registered: 11-27-2007
I'm sorry to hear about your loss :( I don't have any advice, but I'm hoping you get a healthy BFP very soon.
~Katie
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Registered: 10-05-2006
I am so sorry you had to go through this. Hugs......
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Registered: 06-29-2010
I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. I hope you can start TTC soon.
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Registered: 05-12-2008

I am so sorry for your loss.

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Registered: 09-02-2010

So sorry for your loss! I just came from the expecting July 2011.. We lost our angle at 6 weeks because it was ectpoic..

It's never easy.

I wish you the best on the next TTC advanture!

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I'm so sorry you find yourself here. :( But these women are awesome, so you came to the right place! {{{{{HUGS}}}}}
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Registered: 02-03-2011

I am so sorry for your loss.

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Registered: 06-19-2005
I just had a m/c too. So sorry for your loss. I am 40 and can not afford to wait and my dr. actually told me that normally she would say to wait but sometimes your chances are very good after a m/c because of your hormones and because of my age don't bother to wait. So we are trying but the whole thing about the opk's coming up + if you still have hcg in your body might make it hard to figure out your O date anyway this month.

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