Had 2nd Miscarriage today

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Registered: 09-21-2008
Had 2nd Miscarriage today
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Mon, 12-06-2010 - 8:02pm

Hello! My name is Betsy and I have a sweet DS that's 19 months old. My husband and I had our first miscarriage 4 months ago and this was the first time being pregnant since then. I found out last Thursday and took another test today and it was BARLEY positive anymore, called dr, and now starting to loose it. I am 23 years old and we wanted to have a couple kids total but I don't know if I can keep going through this. My doctors act like it's nothing and just "wait on the bleeding" as she told me today. Do we get help? Or keep trying? Or what is our next step? I don't know if I can go through this every few months. It's not near as hard on DH as it is on me! Thanks for listening. :(

 

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Registered: 03-04-2010
Mon, 12-06-2010 - 8:13pm

Betsy,
I'm so sorry! We all know all too well what you're going through. I felt the same way about my Dr. when I had my miscarriages. In fact, the Dr. wouldn't even see me for the first two. They just told me to wait it out. Usually, Dr.'s won't do any testing or anything until you've had 3 miscarriages. Some will do it sooner, but you've really got to stand up for yourself and tell them you want an RPL panel (recurrent pregnancy loss). I do hope your stay here is short & you get your sticky BFP soon. {{HUGS}}

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Registered: 03-25-2010
Mon, 12-06-2010 - 9:46pm

Hi and welcome. I'm so sorry for your losses. What do you feel like doing? Do you want testing or something else? If you do, I say ask for it. It is your body, your future. Listen to your gut. ((HUGS))

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Registered: 09-24-2004
Tue, 12-07-2010 - 10:16am

Welcome and I'm so sorry for your losses.

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Registered: 05-12-2008
Tue, 12-07-2010 - 11:02am

I am so sorry for your losses.