Hard time waiting to ttc (m)

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Hard time waiting to ttc (m)
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Fri, 03-28-2003 - 2:36pm
Is anyone else having a hard time waiting to ttc? I had some MAJOR EWCM this morning (sorry if that's TMI). Dh and I had planned to BD tonight anyway b/c we haven't yet since my m/s on March 10, and he's finally off work tonight. Part of me is just dying to not use a condom. First off, I can't stand condoms, it just feels so clinical (again sorry if TMI!). Second, I have a hard time trying to prevent pg, when that's what I want, is to be pg again! ARGH, but I know I should wait a cycle right? WAAAH, why aren't there any easy answers? What do you ladies think?

Katy

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Registered: 03-28-2003
Fri, 03-28-2003 - 4:13pm
Some people say wait.... but I've heard it's ok if you don't. I just had my m/c in Feb (d&c) and I had no idea I was ovulating until FF told me so! So I was like... ok, I could be pg, what the heck! Well it didn't happen and I'm a fertile girl. So I guess what I'm saying is do what you want, but I think your body won't get pg again unless it can handle it. AND know that your body can be screwed up for a while (that's my biggest fear).

They say not to get pg for a cycle or two b/c of dating the pg, but if you know when you concieved then that's not a worry.

GL to you!

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Fri, 03-28-2003 - 5:10pm
I totally agree. I am also pretty fertile. We decided not to prevent pg before first AF but I don't think I Oed because I had no EWCM. I think that your body won't if it's not ready. We basically left it up to God! I am currently hoping that I've Oed and am 2WW. I wish you all the luck in the world! Love, Jacqui