He has changed..

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Registered: 01-29-2011
He has changed..
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Thu, 11-03-2011 - 1:18am

Last Sunday I miscarriaed my 11 week old twins. My boyfriend who is in a differnt state then I am due to an arugment .. now its like things have changed. he wont talk to me. bearly is texting me, says love you and he always say's I love you. I tell him I need him all he says is im sorry..I'm hurt bad cause were so far apart and i dont know why he is doing this..

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Registered: 01-22-2010
Thu, 11-03-2011 - 3:49am

I'm so sorry for your loss and I'm so sorry your b/f isn't being more supportive but loss affects different people in different ways. He may just be struggling to explain how he feels and to communicate or he may still be in shock, your loss is still very recent. You need to sit down and talk to him, tell him how you feel and ask how he is feeling. I hope that helps *hugs*

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Registered: 01-29-2011
Sun, 11-06-2011 - 12:47am

Well thats really hard to do cause he lives 7 hours away right now and everything that can go wrong will go wrong through this ordeal.. but thank you none the less.. I guess time is what I should give him this is my 3rd miscrg and his 1st.. Just scares me cause I really dont want to lose him..

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Registered: 11-08-2011
Wed, 11-09-2011 - 7:03am
I am so terribly sorry to hear about your loss. I myself had a miscairage in September - at 6 weeks...This truely is a time when you need loads of support and I will pray for your healing physically and emotionally. I hope that the two of you can resolve your differences as I believe this is the time when you need him the most. Much Love :) xoxo