how did your husband/partner deal with the loss?
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|Tue, 10-04-2011 - 9:17am|
I have miscarried two times. This last Sunday when I found out that I had missed abortion and I was so upset. However, my husband took it worse than me probably because the first miscarriage that we had we were in different countries so it was a different experience for him as he was not present. So on Sunday he cried and was depressive all day. I felt the same but I felt like I did not have the support from him because he just kept on saying that we have such bad luck and most of the day he just kept to himself. Yesterday in hospital he was with me the whole day but today he had to go to work which is ok because physically I feel ok and I am not bleeding a lot. I just feel dizzy because yesterday they put me to sleep for the intervention and I know this is common side effect. But today he called me from work and said that after work he is going to play futball with his friends because it will help him stop thiking about it at least for little bit. This made me upset because I am alone at home all day and he is not going to be home from futball until 10pm. I am upset that he does not think it is difficult for me to be at home alone all day. Am I right? Or am I just being too sensitive? I know he is having a hard time but so am I! And I do not want to be alone...