I am new...but need you!

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Registered: 03-21-2011
I am new...but need you!
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Mon, 03-21-2011 - 10:04am

Hello...my sister recommended all of you for me. I have really needed some people who can REALLY relate to my situation and sadness. I have had two miscarriages since July 2010 and 1 chemical pregnancy (no living children). My husband and I long for a baby and are really struggling with these losses and just feel hopeless. We are continuing to try and have an appointment with a new doctor next month. I am hoping she will run tests and be sensitive to our situation unlike my previous doc who seems to think 2 m/c are no big deal and will not do testing until it happens 3 times! :( I don't want to go through it again. Anyway...I look forward to hearing from all of you and learning from you.

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Registered: 03-04-2010
Thu, 03-24-2011 - 7:55pm

Andrea,
I'm so sorry for your losses. Like you, my doctor wouldn't do testing until I've had 3 miscarriages. Good for you for being proactive and seeking out a new doctor. I hope you find the support that you need here & your stay is nice and short.

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Registered: 11-27-2007
Wed, 03-30-2011 - 4:58pm
Andrea, I'm very sorry to hear about your losses :( I hope you are able to get that sticky little bean very soon!
~Katie
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Registered: 04-17-2011
Sun, 04-17-2011 - 7:25pm

Hi,

I am sorry to hear of all the heartache and losses this group has had. I have had 6 losses since 02-2010.. Ive heard the "we dont do testing untill you've lot 3" my mother immediately said I think its your progesterone..?? She worked ar a drs office for 10 yrs.. well I asked the dr if they can test the progesterone, and it was like pulling teeth.. they would say , well we normally dont do that. and I said Im having reoccurring miscarriages around the same time, during my pregnancies! and so she tested my progesterone at the first blood draw. It was 23. not real real bad, but not real good either. so then a week later they didnt want to test it again, AGAIN Ihad to pull teeth to get them to and, so they said ok. It was 13. and within the week i miscarried. AGAIN!! so I went to another dr, and she said she didnt think it was me progesterone.. kinda blew it off.. but I got her to say it was ok to take progesterone during the next pregnacy , just in case she was wrong.. well when i got pregnant again, I already had the pills and was taking them since 2 days past ovulation.. and she told me I didnt have to take them?? but Icould finish out what I had?? Im like what? so I changed drs right away.. This was this last pregnancy, and the new dr immediatly upped my progesterone,and was testing it. I was taking 200 mg of prometrium 2 times a day, and my level was 18.1!! they also saw the heartbeat that day.. so he said it should be way higher than that, with you taking that much. so then I got on the shot once a day and the pill once a day.. and it was too late! :O(

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Registered: 12-21-2010
Sun, 04-17-2011 - 8:03pm

Welcome to the board!

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