I wasn't trying, but I think it happened

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I wasn't trying, but I think it happened
Mon, 02-06-2012 - 10:53pm

And I don't know if I can do this. I am terrified. DH and I have been using BC and Condoms and only went without a condom once but I had been on BC for a month! I lost my little bean at 9 weeks (est) in November and it tore me up. All the what if's. I had some symptoms this morning, I gag randomly when I am pregnant and I was gaggin, so I POS. The line was faint but there. What if I lose this one too. It would kill me. I need some encouragement and support from you guys. Those of you who have been in my shoes. How do you get past this all-consuming fear?

by Ruby
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Registered: 03-28-2010
Mon, 02-06-2012 - 11:07pm

oh my....well, let me 1st say, if you are, then congrats! It is a blessing & can handle it....you will see, you will find strength you didn't know you had!

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Registered: 01-18-2008
Tue, 02-07-2012 - 12:08pm
Congratulations! I lost my little one at 9 weeks the end of November. We are going to start TTC this month. I know I will be terrified the whole first trimester that I will have another loss. But, my doctor assured me that my chances of another miscarriage are really small. It's really normal for us to worry. You'll do fine! Congratulations again on your little one! H & H 9 months!
Rachel Mom to five great kiddos and one angel in heaven (MC @ 9 weeks) Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers