Intro *DS mentioned

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Registered: 10-07-2010
Intro *DS mentioned
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Mon, 11-15-2010 - 11:59am

I just wanted to post an intro so when/if I rely to a post you guys don’t think who the heck is that, lol. My name is Mellissa. I am 31 my DH is 35. I have 1 living son named Alex, he’s 6. On Oct.22 2010 my 2nd son Matthew Neal was born an angel @ 21 weeks. We aren’t TTC as of yet. But we will soon and I find all the info on the board very helpful. I never TTC just left it up to nature before, well that is TTC but never charted or checked CM. But with Matthew’s death I want to be more prepared and aware this time around. I don’t blame myself but I want to make sure I do everything by the book if I do have another. I never thought what happened to Matthew would (nobody does but it put things in perspective for me)so I want to be proactive in TTC incase a takes a while. I will just lurk for a while but again wanted you to know I’m here. I know I don’t understand a lot of what you ladies are going thru yet. So I won’t give out any advice but may post a P&PT/thinking of you reply every now and then.

I’m not charting yet because my cycle hasn’t returned since Matthew. I did check my cervix for the 1st the other day, lol. I don't understand why it's so uncofortable when the doctor does, it wasn't bad when I did it!

 

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Registered: 03-04-2010
Mon, 11-15-2010 - 6:38pm

Welcome, Melissa. I'm so incredibly sorry for your recent loss. There are no words. This is a wonderfully supportive place. I'm not TTC either (at least until December). Please feel free to post away!

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Registered: 08-16-2007
Tue, 11-16-2010 - 7:22am

Melissa, welcome here. I am so, so sorry about your pregnancy ending at 21 weeks. That is just awful. I hope that you and your DH, and your son can bea source of comfort for each other right now.

Im really glad you've found this board. I hope that it will be an encouraging, supportive, safe place for you as you sort out your feelings and grief after your devatstaing loss, and being to TTC again soon. Please let us know if you have any questions, especially questions about cm or charting. Remember, we are all here to support each other through this life-after-miscarriage journey.

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Registered: 06-29-2010
Thu, 11-18-2010 - 12:08am
Sorry for your loss. HUGS!!! Welcome to the board! I think you find find this a supportive environment.

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