I've been lurking

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Registered: 05-19-2010
I've been lurking
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Wed, 09-15-2010 - 11:22am
But i finally decided to post.
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Registered: 05-25-2007
Wed, 09-15-2010 - 11:38am
I can really relate to you on this one im sorry you had to be here with the rest of us this way but we welcome (hugssss) i had my mc last month on the 18th naturally i was 9w along exactly..i can tell you there is no easy way to cope and its a process but there are some amazing women here..i for one started using opks right away n caught my surge and hoping for another miracle as my dr didnt say i couldnt try right away lol im abit eager as you can see...but this whole tracking and posting my story here and meeting ppl who share the same experience has helped me tremendously!! As i hope it does for you!








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Registered: 10-12-2008
Wed, 09-15-2010 - 12:58pm

I am so sorry that you have to be in this group but glad that you found us.

Cynthia

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Registered: 03-25-2010
Wed, 09-15-2010 - 1:21pm
Welcome and big ((HUGS)) to you! I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sure that must have been hard. We found out at our first u/s at 8weeks that I would m/c (no hb). My history is in my siggy. Some days are worse than others, but for the most part I'm better. I think it helps to talk about it, whether it be with DH, your BFF, or here and to give yourself time to heal emotionally. I'm so glad I found this board. The ladies here are wonderful and very supportive, even with the smallest vent! I look forward to getting to know you.
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Me(30), DH(30)...Our TTC journey:


~1993: Dx of bicornuate uterus (BU) on u/s


September 20, 2003: begin wedded bliss! (on BCP)


Fall 2007: HSG results consistent with BU


Fall 2008: here we go, bye-bye BCP


November 2008: DH in hospital, ?ChemPg/horrid AF


Winter 2008: back on BCP


Spring/Summer 2009: last chemo, radiation for DH


January 2010: start prenatals, waiting


March 2010: green light to TTC, see ya BCP


April 2010: BFP (4/1), beta ~900 (4/2)


May 2010: m/c (5/30) @12w5d


June 2010: regrouping, septum (SU) vs. BU


currently: BCP, awaiting surgery on 9/20




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Registered: 10-05-2006
Wed, 09-15-2010 - 5:55pm
I am very sorry for your loss. I lost my LO in July from an ectopic. We have been trying since 2006 so we were excited to get our BFP and devastated when we lost it. We all feel your pain. I just had my first AF after ectopic at the end of August and I'm hoping my cycle is my normal 28-30 days.
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Registered: 05-19-2010
Wed, 09-15-2010 - 8:30pm
Thanks ladies!!
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Registered: 09-24-2004
Wed, 09-15-2010 - 8:38pm

Welcome and I'm so sorry for your loss.

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Registered: 12-08-2009
Thu, 09-16-2010 - 7:50am

Im so sorry for ypur loss. It is a very devastating thing to have to live through. Im glad youve found this baord though, it can be a real source of support and encouragement as you try to heal and move forward and begin to TTC again.

As for how to deal, everyone grieves and deals with their emotions in different ways. It helps me to talk about my experiences, to use online forums like this one, as well as blog or journal. Another thing that was a tremendous help to me was to get some kind of tangible reminder of the babies I had lost. It could be anything (necklace, ring, bracelet, keychain, photo book or scrapbook, a memory box, plant a tree in their honor) but the idea is to have something tangible that you can see and touch and feel.

Let us know if you have anymore questions.
We are all here to help each other.



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Registered: 02-18-2005
Thu, 09-16-2010 - 11:42am

I am so sorry about your loss.