m/c after 22 months of ttc

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Registered: 04-01-2011
m/c after 22 months of ttc
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Fri, 04-01-2011 - 11:55pm

My husband and I finally got our BFP on his birthday (3/18) after 22 long months of trying!

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Registered: 03-20-2005
Mon, 04-18-2011 - 9:03am

I am sooo sorry to hear of your loss...We too found out we were pregnant after trying for almost 2 years. We miscarried at 7 weeks 1 day. I had a hard time with it too. I felt like we had tried soo hard and for sooo long and finally got that BFP just to lose it. I tried to stay positive and looked at it as, we finally were given a sign that we CAN get pregnant, but maybe it was not the best time, or that it was lost due to the baby not developing correctly. Although it is very hard, I am happy that we know we can get pregnant! I wish you guys the best and dont give up. Get out of bed and get active...I have found myself being consumed with house work, organizing, cleaning etc. Keeping active may help the situation in a lot of ways! Keep your head up!

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Registered: 11-27-2007
Thu, 04-07-2011 - 3:24pm
I'm so sorry for your loss :( I hope you're able to find some support here and get that sticky little bean very soon!
~Katie
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Registered: 06-29-2010
Mon, 04-04-2011 - 7:56pm
HUGS. I know this is so incredibly difficult. I had two losses this year and it is horrible. Everything you describe is completely normal. This is. Very supportive place!!
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Registered: 12-21-2010
Sun, 04-03-2011 - 2:28pm

I am so sorry for your loss

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Registered: 04-01-2011
Sat, 04-02-2011 - 10:46pm

Thank you to everyone who responded.

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Registered: 10-05-2006
Sat, 04-02-2011 - 8:30pm

I am so sorry. I know how it feels to be trying forever (we have been trying since 2006) and were so happy to finally get pregnant in June 2010 only to lose it to an ectopic in July. We are still waiting for our miracle and it is hard playing the waiting game. I am so sorry that you have to go through this because it is tough. Hang in there. I know it is hard. Hugs........

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Registered: 04-13-2010
Sat, 04-02-2011 - 4:22pm

I'm so sorry for your loss. It really is devestating to try for so long. You've found a wonderful group of very supportive women. Many of the women here can completely feel your frustration in TTC for so long. It's scary to think that you've just missed your chance, so scary. Infertility is not fair, and to add a loss on top of infertility, is just so wrong.

I hope you'll find the support you need here, hopefully your stay will be short.


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Registered: 04-03-1998
Sat, 04-02-2011 - 4:03pm
I'm so, so sorry, sweetie. {{{{{HUGS}}}}} I can't imagine trying for so long, only to lose your little one. I hope your stay here is shorter and you finally get to hold another baby.
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Registered: 09-24-2004
Sat, 04-02-2011 - 11:05am
Welcome and I'm so sorry for your loss. :( The sadness and frustration of a m/c is even worse when you've been TTC for so long. (I completely understand that!) We're all here for you and please visit our folder down in the TTC 9+ months section. You'll be in good company. (((HUGS)))
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Registered: 06-27-2006
Sat, 04-02-2011 - 10:26am
I'm so very sorry for your loss! I know how you feel. My DH and I tried for just over 2 years to get pg and finally after 25 months, we got our BFP and we were SO elated. And then 12 weeks later, we were devastated to find that our baby had died at 10w6d. (((HUGS))) You're not alone. I hope that you will come here and find the support you need to heal and when you're ready, I hope you will also find the support you need to begin TTC again.
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