New and TTC after M/C

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Registered: 04-13-2003
New and TTC after M/C
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Wed, 04-16-2003 - 3:12am
Hello everyone,

I am new to this message board. I looking for people that are going through the same situation as me. I am 26 years old and my husband and I am are trying to concieve. I had a miscarriage on 9/27/02..and 4/13 would have been my due date. So its been hard the last few. People keep telling me to get over it, you will have another..but they dont know that. But we are finally ready to start trying again. It seems like everywhere I go someone is pregant or just had a baby. Sometimes I hate going out of the house cause I dont want to see other people with babies. I have cried every day since my m/c on Sept 27. Sometime I just dont know what to do. My husband is very supportive, but i am hurting so much. I feel like my body is a failure..making me a failure. I have PCOS and without medication I norally dont have a cycle. Although the past 2 months I have been on nothing and it just magically showed up, so I am starting to have more faith. So last week we started the Clomid again. Hoping and praying that I ovulate.

I am looking for peole that understand what I am going though. A support system, someone to talk to about everything. SOmeone that is not going to tell me just to get over it. Hope to hear from you.

email melissarob2@hotmail.com

Take care

Melissa

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Thu, 04-17-2003 - 12:15pm
Welcome to the board. I'm so sorry about your loss. You will find lots of women here who can truly understand your pain and the highs and lows of trying to conceive again.

Hugs,

Sophia

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Registered: 03-21-2003
Sun, 04-20-2003 - 10:06am
Welcome to the board, Melissa. I am so sorry for your loss. I dont have normal cycles either and I havent got dx with PCOS but the dr is pretty sure I have it. Good luck on your ttc journey. The pain truly will never go away, it fades a little over time but not much. Good luck! Crystal

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Registered: 04-13-2003
Sun, 04-20-2003 - 11:16am
Thanks for your relpy. I am really glad that I have found this board in the last week I think I have coped better than had been the past 5 months. I have gotten so much encouragement and I can feel the strenght of all the women ttc. I realize now that I am not alone. On a bright side for me I finally got an LH surge yesterday so things are finally looking up. Good luck to you and your husband while TTC. Keep in touch.,

You'll be in my prayers,

*HUGS*

Melissa