Hi My name is Lindsey im new to this board.
Lindsey, I'm so sorry for your loss.
thank u for all your kind words.
Ya know, waiting three months is kind of the "old school" way of thinking and some dr's are just more comfortable staying inside that box but most of us here on this board (and we have a lot of experience between us) agree that waiting until A) you're healed physically and emotionally - that means no more bleeding or pain and B) for AF to come and go is plenty of time to wait. So it sounds like you're ready to go emotionally and hopefully the dr will tell you everything looks good physically in Feb so then all you'll have left to do is wait for AF. You COULD start TTC before AF but we all kind of agree that is a bad idea. It just complicates things for you and will end up stressing you out.
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Welcome to the board, Lindsey.
First I want to say that I'm so very sorry for your loss. I have a friend IRL who's experienced one loss at 35 weeks and then 2 at 15 weeks. I don't think her doctor told her to wait more than one cycle to try again. Both of the babies I lost stopped growing at 6w1d so, though I did have D&C's, it wasn't in the second trimester so I don't have first-hand experience.
Please continue to post here. You'll find the women to be very helpful and understanding, and great at "listening" to you when you just need to cry or vent.
I wanted to say welcome and give ((HUGS)). So sorry for your loss. I can't answer your question though because my m/c was in the first T and was natural. It sounds like you have good answers from other ladies. This is a great board. I'm glad you found us.