New to the board and anxious

(((HUGS))) Having been down this road twice now (once before my DD was conceived and then another one a year ago), I can't say that the anxiety goes away. It took us a total of 18 months to conceive our DD (including the time prior to our first pregnancy and loss). This time around, it took 2 years and 1 month to conceive and then we lost the baby at 12w3d. We're sitting at a year from that loss and still no pregnancy. It IS anxiety-producing, and quite frustrating too.

I'm not sure that I have any good pointers, other than perhaps charting your cycles and/or doing OPK's so that you can pinpoint where you are in your cycle. For some, that feeling of knowing where you are with your cycles can reduce some anxiety a little bit. But, for others, it just makes a person more obsessed and anxious. So, you have to do what is right for you. Posting here and getting to know us also is a great way to relieve some of that anxiety. We're here, even if it's for a simple hug or asking for us to cross fingers or say a prayer. I hope that you get your BFP soon and you have a healthy, sticky baby!