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Mon, 11-08-2010 - 4:17pm
Well after my BFP a few weeks ago, I had bleeding & pain... Seveal blood draws & ultra sounds late & it's an ectopic. I just had methotrexate to stop my baby from growing & I'm sick about it. I can't believe this happened & I just want to crawl into a hole... It's been a tough day.
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Mon, 11-08-2010 - 4:22pm

Words can't express this, but I am so sorry. This is awful. We all understand, but all we can do is send you virtual hugs. Take care of yourself and reach out for the support of your friends and family.

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Mon, 11-08-2010 - 4:24pm

Ali, I am so sorry for your loss. I know this is tough for you.

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Mon, 11-08-2010 - 8:15pm

I am so very, very sorry for your loss.

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Mon, 11-08-2010 - 8:18pm

(((HUGS))) Ali... I'm so sorry.

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Mon, 11-08-2010 - 8:41pm
Thank you so much everyone. I'm still in shock... I honestly assumed today's apt would b no big deal & they would just tell me everything is fine. Little did I know that was going to be far from the case. It's worse knowing that evrrything (at this point) is / was growing fine but because it difnt make it to the right spot it just can't be... I gave jack an extra big, long hug & rocked him much longer than normal. I that snuggie time after today...
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Mon, 11-08-2010 - 8:59pm

Oh Ali, I am so so very sorry that you are having to go through this right now.

How terribly awful. It must be a mom's worst nightmare.

I hope that the methotrexate works quickly so that it can end soon.

Again, Im just so sorry! :womansad:

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Mon, 11-08-2010 - 9:05pm

I am so sorry hun. We are all here for you. :smileysad:

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Tue, 11-09-2010 - 6:13pm

I am so sorry for your loss. I went through an ectopic with the MX shot myself in July and it is NO fun. I started getting more bleeding and severe cramping on day 4 after the Metho shot. I bled for about 46 days straight in total from first spotting through first af. I hope you won't bleed that long. I know that we each react to the drug and situation differently.

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Wed, 11-10-2010 - 8:37pm

Ali,
I'm so sorry. We all understand how painful this is. We're here for you.

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Wed, 11-10-2010 - 10:10pm

I am very sorry to hear this:( I hope the best for you (((HUUUGGSSS))) Things will get better I promise! The pain is hard! But we are all hear to help you through it!

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