new here..4 consecutive losses

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Registered: 04-16-2010
new here..4 consecutive losses
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Sat, 08-28-2010 - 8:09am

I have been reading the board for the past couple of weeks and am just about to have a nervous breakdown, so I thought I would as for help!


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Registered: 10-14-2008
Sat, 08-28-2010 - 8:15am

((((hugs)))...you came to the right spot! these women are wonderful and alot of them can relate to your story! your feelings are completely normal..and I pray you get your miracle soon!


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Registered: 10-12-2008
Sat, 08-28-2010 - 9:11am

I am so sorry for your losses and the terrible nightmare you have been going through the last couple years.

Cynthia

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Registered: 12-08-2009
Sat, 08-28-2010 - 10:15am

Im so glad youve found this board. It sounds like you really could use some women who have been where you are - well, youve found us, and youve come to the right place.

Please dont apologize for what you are thinking/feeling. Thank you for sharing what you're going through. Being scared to TTC again or get pregnant, and feeling sad and hopeless are things that all of us can relate to. Im so, so sorry that youve had to endure 4 losses in the last two years. That would make any person feel crazy and inept at having a baby.

I also sometimes had flashbacks about my first miscarriage experience (it was also the one that I was farthest along). It is not something that you can ever, ever forget - though time does help to lessen your pain and sadness.

I do hope that you can go on to have a BFP and a healthy pregnancy soon.
If you have any other questions, please post again.
Looking forward to seeing you around TTCAM more often.



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Registered: 09-24-2004
Sat, 08-28-2010 - 10:40am

(((HUGS)) I'm so sorry for your losses.

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Registered: 10-10-2008
Sat, 08-28-2010 - 10:51am
BIG HUGS - I am so sorry you have to be here but it is really a wonderful place to reach out when you feel like you are at the end of your rope. I cannot imagine 4. I wish I had some great words to say, but sometimes I can barely keep it together myself (just had my 2nd m/c + D&C on Thursday). My emotions are all over the map too.
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Registered: 12-08-2009
Sat, 08-28-2010 - 11:04am

I am so sorry for your losses. I know how devastating one m/c is - I can't imagine the pain you are going through right now. I am so glad that you decided to post after reading for a bit. I know oh too well how hard it is to start posting - I lurked for a while before I jumped in but am so glad I did. The woman on this board are beyond supportive - they don't judge and only offer a shoulder when you need it. I'm so sorry you are here, but am glad you came and we look forward to getting to know you.

Please feel free to post/vent anytime - there is always someone that is on the ready to listen and offer some words of encouragement.

Hugs to you ~

Ann

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Registered: 10-17-2007
Sat, 08-28-2010 - 11:18am

I am so very sorry for your losses.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2010
Sat, 08-28-2010 - 12:54pm

Thank you for the words of kindness.


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Registered: 05-17-2010
Sat, 08-28-2010 - 5:46pm

Huge hugs. I wish I could say something to lessen your pain. I am so sorry for your losses. I understand your fears of becoming pregnant again. I have only had one loss and it makes you realize how fragile pregnancy really is. You are so strong and it's good that you've sought out support. It's a tough road, and helps to have company along the way. It may offer hope to let you know that my SIL had 4 mc before she had her healthy DS. I hope you have a sticky BFP soon.

Anne

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Registered: 02-18-2005
Mon, 08-30-2010 - 10:32am

Oh my sweetie, I am so sorry for you all your losses :'(

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