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Mon, 08-20-2012 - 6:57pm

I've been visiting various forums since we lost our little Blueberry 17 days ago, but I haven't ever posted to one before.  This group seems really supportive and sweet.  I've been having a hard time coping with the loss but reading the posts has been really helpful.  Anyway, I just wanted to introduce myself and wish all of you the best.  


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Registered: 05-04-2012
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Mon, 08-20-2012 - 7:45pm

I'm sorry for your loss and that you are having a hard time.  I wish I could tell you that it will get easier, but I think it's more of you figure out a way to move on, rather than it getting easier.  It just takes time.  We will all be here for you for whatever you need.  I am so sorry you are here but welcome to the group!  I look forward to getting to know you better.

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Registered: 04-15-2012
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Mon, 08-20-2012 - 10:02pm
I'm sorry for what u r going through now, and how your life will forever be changed from this. A good book I read after my 3rd loss in a row is called knocked up,knocked down. I highly recommend it. Stalking these sights also helped, to know I wasn't alone. Lastly, I have a rememberance item for each of my losses, a blanket, stuffed frog, and memory box. We are all here for u also, if u need anything.
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Tue, 08-21-2012 - 12:10pm
I'm so sorry for your loss, Jen. I hope that you'll continue to find a safe haven here, sending you lots of (((HUGS))).

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Tue, 08-21-2012 - 10:08pm

Hi Jen,

the gals here are great, but it sucks the circumstances that put us here!  I, also have suffered a few losses (back to back in last 9 mos.)...not fun, but we get thru it day by day & the support from others that know how we feel.

Hugs & welcome!  :heart:

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend