Not sure where I belong yet :-\
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|Fri, 09-24-2010 - 3:28pm|
I couldn't really find a place where I belong yet so I hope I can hang out here.
On our fist month TTC (for our first child) in July I got pregnant. At my 9 1/2 week mark, I found out the baby died at week 8. I just had a d&c last Thursday so really I can't even TTC yet. I just have so many questions. We're both 30 , and I was the one who wanted to wait this long to have kids. Now I feel like I just screwed myself. I don't know if that makes sense.
All I want now is to feel normal. I still have spotting and each day (heck, each hour) I look to check and see if its stopped for good. No luck yet. Can I ask how long this takes? I read you need 20 days of no bleeding before you can consider bleeding a period...does that sound right?
I'm sorry this is so long. I hate that this affects so many people. But I am glad that I will have some people to talk to that have gone through this, I don't know anyone. And especially since I was trying for our first... I just hope this only happens once..