From Oct 2011 expecting board to here...

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Registered: 04-10-2006
From Oct 2011 expecting board to here...
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Sat, 04-09-2011 - 9:20pm

Hi Ladies

I didn't think i would be on a TTC board this fast. We lost our baby this week at 10.5 weeks. I lost all pregnancy symptoms and the ultrasound comfirmed that the baby is gone...I had a D&C two days ago.

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Registered: 01-27-2008
Sat, 04-09-2011 - 11:11pm

I was sad to read this post. There are a couple of us from the October 2011 Expecting Club. This board has really great support to offer. I hope that

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Registered: 09-09-2008
Sun, 04-10-2011 - 2:04am

I'm so very sorry for your loss. A miscarriage is such a huge blow to your dreams and desires, and it really takes time to come to terms with that. I also was expecting to have a baby in October, but unfortunately miscarried around 7 1/2 weeks on March 11th - both DH and I were brokenhearted...and we still feel sadness, but have been able to come to a feeling of peace about it over the past month. But there are moments when it really still kills me, like when I find out a friend or acquaintance is expecting and is due around the time that I would have been. It's happened more than I expected in the past month. I can really relate to your feelings of wanting to give your son a sibling. We, too, have a son who is 22 months old, and what made me the most excited about the pregnancy was giving him a sibling. And so I was truly affected by the miscarriage not just as a loss of a child for my DH and I, but as a loss of a brother/sister for him.

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Registered: 04-10-2006
Sun, 04-10-2011 - 7:54am

Thank you both. It just plain sucks for all of us. Some women have to work much harder for a baby that comes to many so easily. I guess it will make us stronger and appreciate our families and children more. It must be a good thing. I feel that DH and I have gotten super close in the infertility process and we look at our son every moment of the day and feel lucky.

i am heartbroken for all of you but full of hope. ONce it's the right time we will all get our babies.

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Sun, 04-10-2011 - 8:16am

I'm so sorry for your loss. You've found a wonderful group of very supportive women. Hopefully your stay here will be short, hugs...


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Registered: 06-27-2006
Sun, 04-10-2011 - 12:19pm
(((HUGS))) I'm sorry you've had to join us. I've had two "later" losses - one at 10w and one at 12w3d. I hope you find the support you need here. This is a great group of ladies who understand what you've been through.
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Registered: 06-19-2005
Sun, 04-10-2011 - 2:38pm

I truly do know exactly how you feel.

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Registered: 06-29-2010
Sun, 04-10-2011 - 2:59pm
WeIcome to the board. I'm so sorry for your loss. I know it is heartbreaking. HUGS
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Registered: 05-11-2010
Mon, 04-11-2011 - 7:53am

I am so sorry for you and your family.

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Registered: 05-12-2008
Mon, 04-11-2011 - 3:03pm

Hi, Bernadette, welcome to the board.

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Registered: 12-21-2010
Tue, 04-12-2011 - 7:32pm
I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. You've found an amazing group of ladies.
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