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| Wed, 10-20-2010 - 5:15pm |
I just had a miscarriage Monday morning. I went to the doctor yesterday and I have passed everything. I am still upset about the loss but I am ready to start trying again. Is it too soon?
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I had a m/c two weeks ago. Emotionally it still really hurts but DH and I decided to try right away again too. The doctor said it was perfectly fine and there was no need to wait any amount of time to try again.
I am so so sorry for you loss. I have found the women on this board to be so wondeful and helpful though. So I hope it helps you as much as it has me. Sorry again hun!!
Katie, DH, DD- Emma (11/27/11), #2 due 10/4/13 : )
Hi, my doctor told me what the pp said. I can try as soon as I get my first normal period. Of course I haven't gone through the m/c yet (natural) so I have some time to wait. I'm still very sad emotionally and I know the worst is yet to come. But I have moments where I really want to try again and others where I am uncertain. I think the biggest thing to worry about in being ready is how you are feeling emotionally. If you are emotionally ready-go for it!
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I am really sorry about your loss. It is such a difficult thing to endure.
If you both feel ready to try again and youve passed everything naturally, there isnt a medical need to wait. It is very difficult emotionally though to try again, and thats the main reason why some couples do not TTC immediately after al oss. It takes time to heal and process everything, and a new pregnancy will not replace the hurt, loss and emptiness you feel after a miscarriage.. Some doctors may ask you to wait until youve had one full cycle post-miscarriage, just to make it easier to date a future pregnancy.
I have nothing new to add to the conversation. I agree that as long as you're emotionally ready, there is really no need to wait. I just wanted to tell you how sorry I am for your loss.
Welcome and I'm so sorry for your loss.
Thank you everyone for your posts. You truly have made me feel welcome. It also makes me feel better to know I am not alone in this. I have two handsome boys, 13 and 8 and never imagined i would have a miscarriage. But after endless hours of computer research and this board I feel better about the decision to immediately try again.
I am sorry for your loss. My RE told me to wait 3 cycles and I will be able to try again with my next cycle which should start any day now. Hopefully we all get our sticky BFP soon.
Hi, I'm so sorry for your loss.
My doctor told me to wait until I'd had two normal periods (2 cycles) to "improve our chances"
I dont think it's too soon. As long as both you and DH are both emotionally and physically ready and the DR says it's ok then I say go for it!
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