Taking a break

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Taking a break
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Fri, 05-06-2011 - 11:50am

I talked to my midwife today and after a long talk with DH, we're taking a break TTC.

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Registered: 05-11-2010
Mon, 05-09-2011 - 9:18am

Aww, I'm sorry that you felt pushed to take a break that you didn't want to, Mindi.

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Sun, 05-08-2011 - 5:24pm
Mindi, I think it was much easier for me to buy the BC, simply because I CAN'T get pg. If it weren't for a medical reason, I would not be doing BC at all! It really, sucks because I don't WANT to be using it, but you have to do what you have to do. But, the fact that it's kind of forcing us to shift our focus for a bit, it's just a bit of a bonus (even though I'm not totally in acceptance of how things are going). KWIM?
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Sun, 05-08-2011 - 2:43pm

Thank you so much ladies.

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Sun, 05-08-2011 - 1:29pm
Mindi, I'm still lurking on and off (obviously haven't been here in a couple days, if I'm just reading this two days later). I'm sorry you're needing to take a break, but I completely understand. I am with Michelle, in that you might feel differently once O time comes along (I've done that so often). But, I also want to say that since we went out and bought BC, this cycle, when we've dtd, it's been ENJOYABLE and RELAXING. I KNOW there won't be a pg. I KNOW AF will show up. So, I'm just taking the time to enjoy my DH. We're trying to figure out where we are in our marriage. Where we are with our life plans. What our identities are again (other than a TTC couple). We may join the TTC group again in several months, but I think for my sanity, I need this right now. I hope you find the same for yourself with a bit of a break. You and your DH are newlyweds...go do some fun things together as a couple. I know that even though my DH and I started TTC about a year after we got married (and were unsuccessful for a LONG time), we also look back fondly on those times as just the two of us and have some good memories of things we did together.

But, to also go along with what Michelle said - if you decide that you are done taking a break in a couple weeks or a month, then that's ok too. Sometimes it takes months to get your sanity back. Other times it's just the idea of taking a couple weeks off of the obsession that helps immensely! :) Stay in touch. You know how to find me!
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Sat, 05-07-2011 - 11:24pm

We all think about doing that off and on... Hope you find some peace and a surprise BFP too... If not we will be here...Hugs.....

 
 
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Sat, 05-07-2011 - 1:30pm
HUGS, I know TTC can taKe take a toll. HUGS again!!
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Sat, 05-07-2011 - 12:00pm
I'm right there with you, Mindi. I'm actually taking a break, too. I had written a long heartfelt post about it that didn't load correctly, and didn't have the heart to try again.
I hope that we will both be back on the board soon, with our hearts back in the game! Good luck and I hope you find peace.
-Rebecca

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Fri, 05-06-2011 - 11:34pm
I've been there too, Mindi....many times. I'm kinda there right now as a matter of fact. It gets so tiring. Take all the time you want, sweetie. We understand....and like Michelle said, we'd also understand if you came back in a week or two, also. All this TTC stuff is such a roller coaster ride...and not such a fun one. :(

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Registered: 04-13-2010
Fri, 05-06-2011 - 6:53pm
Good luck in your break. I have been there many times. I hope it is just what you need and when you come back, I hope you'll get that bfp right away!


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Fri, 05-06-2011 - 6:07pm
I just want to say one more thing :) I have taken many a break, most only last until O time...I am only telling you this so that you know *if* you change your mind next week or tomorrow, that's okay!
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