Trying to conceive with no luck

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Registered: 11-17-2010
Trying to conceive with no luck
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Wed, 11-17-2010 - 9:00pm

Hi.

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Registered: 05-27-2010
Wed, 11-17-2010 - 9:08pm

I know that 5 years have been a long time. Just try to relax!!!!! when I became pregnant for the first time, I was very tense about trying to get pregnant that I really didn't enjoy my husband because all I wanted was a baby. So just relax..... Continue to go and have yourself check to make sure that all is well with you. Prayer always help. God said in his word...Deut 7:13-14 that ....neitiher male nor female shall be childless. Meditate on this word and believe it in your heart that God wants you to have children because of course he made you to conceive and to carry your babies full term. It took me awhile to know that. I hope this helps!!!

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Registered: 07-28-2009
Wed, 11-17-2010 - 9:08pm

Hi, there. I have also been TTC for almost five years. Started trying for our second when I was 24 and I just turned 29. I wish I had some wonderful advice to help but I obviously don't! I have been through every test imagineable and been through tons of infertility treatment.

Are they doing anything to follow up regarding your blocked tube to find out for sure whether it is or isn't blocked?

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Registered: 07-28-2009
Wed, 11-17-2010 - 9:12pm
I'm so sorry - I'm not trying to make waves here but asking someone who has been trying to have a child for more years than most women have been months (especially after a loss) is completely frustrating. If it was as simple as that, we'd all have done that by now.
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Registered: 08-10-1999
Wed, 11-17-2010 - 9:21pm

Hi Cam,

I'm so sorry for your loss and for your TTC issues since. I know how it feels (((HUGS))).

 


 


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Registered: 08-10-1999
Wed, 11-17-2010 - 9:27pm

Pam, not to be argumentative, but some of my completely 100% infertile friends are regular-every-day-churchgoing devout christians. That quote from the bible honestly just ticked me off.

 


 


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Registered: 05-27-2010
Wed, 11-17-2010 - 9:28pm
I agree....It was 5 years for us as well. I went through 3 miscarriages so I'm only sharing what I know and what I have experienced. It is easier said than done.
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Registered: 04-13-2010
Wed, 11-17-2010 - 9:33pm

I'm sorry for your loss and for your experience with infertility. I've been with my husband for almost 13 years. After one year, we miscarried... it took us 7 more years of tests and treatments and heartache to get pregnant again, and I miscarried again, then it took us 3 more years to get pregnant again, and I lost him at 35 weeks. I totally understand your frustration. I'm sorry that I have no quick easy fix - or I'd be fixed. Just know that you are not alone, and there are several of us here that are experiencing the same frustrations as you, feel free to reach out to us.


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Registered: 04-13-2010
Wed, 11-17-2010 - 9:36pm
I mean no offense either, but "try to relax" is one of the TOP things NOT to say to a woman who is ttc and has experienced infertility.

Quoting scriptures also just ticks most of us off. We know, we just don't need it thrown in our faces all the time. It's really easy for one to praise the word and to praise the works when your dreams have come true... but for those of us still in the storm, we just don't need it.


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Registered: 10-05-2006
Thu, 11-18-2010 - 12:03am

Hi Cam,

I have been trying since 2006 and finally started seeing an RE this year. We have our first IUI in June and I got pregnant but sadly it was an ectopic. We just had our first IUI after the ectopic (had to wait 3 months per doctor) and I got a BFN today. I am pretty much waiting for af. Are you seeing an RE or a regular doctor? If you are not, I think it is time to see someone who specializes in fertility.

Hugs. I know this is so hard both the loss ane ttc for years. It takes a toll.

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Registered: 12-14-2004
Thu, 11-18-2010 - 6:26am
Cam, welcome to the board! I'm sorry for your loss and your struggles with infertility. Although I don't have any advice to help, as you've been at this longer than I have, but my thoughts and prayers are with you, and if anyone has advice for you, it's some of the women here! If not, I KNOW you'll get love and support!

Kelly

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