TTC after Ectopic Surgery.... Still sad & scared

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Registered: 09-02-2010
TTC after Ectopic Surgery.... Still sad & scared
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Mon, 12-27-2010 - 12:07pm

Well AF finally returned after surgery in November to remove my ectopic angle... We were told we had to wait a full cycyle so now we can start trying again. I am scared... I keep reliving the day I had an U/S & the tech said... Ok, I see something I need to go get the Dr... My stomach sunk... With the bleeding and the pain I just knew... We gave it a few more days in the hopes it wasn't really what they thought but it was. My agnle got stuck in the wrong stop...

We very much want another baby and our son was 12 months of TTC and our angle was 9 so I feel we have another long road ahead of us but what if I get pregnant right sway? Though I would LOVE LOVE LOVE to I am just still scared something will happen again and honestly, I am not sure I could deal with it if the unthinkable happened again...

Sigh... :(

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Registered: 10-05-2006

I hear you. I am still waiting on my first and also have the unsettling feeling of another ectopic. In a few days we will have our 3rd IUI after our ectopic loss in July. A BFP can't happen soon enough since we have been trying since 2006. I hope the new year brings us all babies.

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Registered: 04-13-2010
Welcome to the board. I'm so sorry for the loss of your angel. I along with several other ladies here know how hard it is to try for months and months, some of us for years and years without success. This is a wonderful group of ladies who are very knowledgeable, I hope you'll find the support you need here.

Hopefully you'll be blessed with your angel in no time!


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Registered: 03-04-2010

Ali,
I'm so sorry! I wish none of us had to endure this. We will never be able to truly relax and enjoy a pregnancy. {[Hugs}}

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Registered: 12-28-2010
I am so sorry for your loss. I know how you feel. I just m/c twins Christmas day. We want to TTC again too but I am so scared, I had this happen before and ended up with 2 m/c in a row. Some places say you are more fertile right after a m/c so good luck! I know it's not easy, it's so scary, but we are here for you. We've been there or are there now. HUGZ
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Registered: 07-23-2009
So sorry to hear about your loss. Totally understandable that you would be scared. Heck i am too and its been 2 yrs. But someone once told me that faith will overcome that fear. I just came back to this board and think having other ladies around that been through the same will help

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Registered: 05-12-2008

(((hugs)))