TTC After miscarriage; not looking good

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TTC After miscarriage; not looking good
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Tue, 09-21-2010 - 5:51pm

Here again. I had posted about my miscarriage in November. I had planned out that pregnancy and had worked out perfectly, up until the loss. My baby would have been born in June. Working in school, it was great. I would have had all summer with the baby. I couldn’t try again so soon, plus I can’t afford to be off work too much. We began trying again at the beginning of August. I didn’t get pregnant. We tried again this month even using OPK’s (last month too). I think I’m getting my period soon.


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Tue, 09-21-2010 - 6:32pm

I am sorry for your loss. I have been trying since 2006 for my first earth baby so I can totally understand the frustration waiting. I have to wait until the end of October because of my ectopic in July. My RE wanted me to wait 3 cycles. Arg...

I do hope you get your sticky BFP soon. I know it is no fun waiting. Hang in there!

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Tue, 09-21-2010 - 6:58pm

I'm sorry for your loss! I could not imagine waiting so long! I know my waiting time has not been very long, but I hate it. I do feel cramps so I'm waiting for AF to show up in the next couple of days!!! But, yes I HATE the waiting!!! It's so hard. I've been so emotional, another of my PMS symptoms! :(



Hope time flies for you and those 3 months seem like nothing! I try to keep myself busy. It helps some, but not always. Good luck and Thanks for your reply!


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Registered: 12-08-2009
Tue, 09-21-2010 - 11:10pm

Im sorry that you are still waiting for another BFP. And I know that even a month or two can seem like FOREVER when you want to be pregnant so badly! Whether youve been TTC again for a few months or a few years, it does not make it any easier.

I know what you mean about your friend at work.... even though you're trying to be happy for her, you cant help but also be bitter and jealous. Hopefully she understands, because she is a miscarriage survivor too. Still, it must be very difficult to talk to her about it right now.

I know that its really hard to get your period again. It always reminds me of my losses. I always tend to be extra-emotional around that time of the month as well. Let us know what happens with your cycle...



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Wed, 09-22-2010 - 2:34am

I'm so sorry for what your feeling. A colleague of mine also m/c within a week of mine. I always planned to get pg again immediately but she managed it and I didn't! She has her baby now and I still don't. Try to take comfort in knowing we all know how you feel, we've all been there and we'll all be here for you so feel free to vent whenever you feel the need *hugs*

TTC #1 since Aug 09, m/c Oct 09.



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Wed, 09-22-2010 - 5:44pm
Thank you ladies so much for your support. It does help to vent a little. I've wanted this baby for almost 3 years already! I've had to deal with relatives, friends, and co-workers having their babies and I'm still waiting. The first year the doctor's told me I had to wait like three cycles after getting off b/c. I was so upset because I had the IUD in and was under the impression that I could get it taken out and try right away. So, we decided to wait another year until I could have it in the summer and still have a job without losing income. That's when I had the miscarriage. I was so devestated. Now I just keep praying. I still have not gotten my period. I didn't test today. I'm to nervous to test. I'm very emotional. I haven't really been cramping today. Like I said before, I don't even know what to think. I'm trying to not get my hopes up and just wait, but OMGosh is it taking a lot to wait patiently or what!! I keep praying "God, please, please, please, let me be pregnant!" Then, last weekend I heard my s-in-l say that she didn't want any more kids and she didn't want to even think about having more. She has one and has lost two. It hurt


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Wed, 09-22-2010 - 8:40pm
Sorry for your loss and struggles. We all understand here. I hope you get your BFP soon!!!!
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Wed, 09-22-2010 - 10:06pm

In the spirit of honesty, I have lied about whether or not we were TTC. There are just some things that you dont want to share with your relatives or friends. No matter how well-meaning their questions are, or how interested and understanding they can be --- sometimes, it is just TMI.

Please let us know whenever you do test.
You will find support here no matter how this cycle ends :)
There have been so many months that I have felt the same way and waited until days after my period was due, because I just didnt want to know if I might be, didnt want to face the fact that I could suffer through another loss - yet I still couldnt stand the stress of not knowing, so I gave in and tested anyway.



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Thu, 09-23-2010 - 12:58pm
Still no AF! Took a pt two days ago, gave in and took it, BFN!! So, I'm really confused!!! Going crazy!!!!


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Thu, 09-23-2010 - 7:12pm
Just got AF!!!! This is so upsetting!!! I'm trying not to think about


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Thu, 09-23-2010 - 9:05pm
So sorry that your period came.
But I guess at least now you know for sure.
The wondering and waiting is always the worst part for me.
I know its not much consolation, but at least you can have fun trying again in October.


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