What are the chances?!?

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What are the chances?!?
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Mon, 02-06-2012 - 11:56pm

What are the chances... I was just told by another good friend that his wife is expecting... on the day I would have been due.

Stephanie

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Tue, 02-07-2012 - 12:43pm

I know Steph....it's hard to hear of other people being pg....esp. friends & family!!

I just saw a whole bunch of cute pix of my nephew, my little sister posted on facebook & it HURTS!! I don't expect her, to realize it is hurtful for me to see the cute baby pix, because she got pg. with him, way before, we were even thinking about trying!!

Also, I have a distant friend, who is also posting a bunch of cute baby pix, of her 2nd child (I think I am just going to delete her, because she's a distant, distant friend)....

Ugggg....I just guess, we smile and continue to have happy feelings for them, even tho, our hearts are broken!! Soooo tough!!

We'll all try again & hopefully get our miracles too, just because we have to endure this hurt!

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Wed, 02-08-2012 - 5:52pm
I'm sorry! My BFF is due in may and all we ever wanted was to have babies together. Of course I'm thrilled for her because we are like sisters but it hurts to know my little one should have been here just 10 weeks later.
I feel your pain and hope you get your baby soon. (((HUGs)))

Jenn (28) & DH Zach (28)
Married 9/24/2005

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Fri, 02-10-2012 - 10:20am
So sorry ladies. My first m/c was just a few weeks behind my sisters. I always look at my little nephew and think I should have a little one the same age. It's like a constant reminder sometimes are easier than others. His first Bday party was pretty hard for me.