What an awful rollercoaster

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Registered: 07-07-2006
What an awful rollercoaster
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Wed, 02-02-2011 - 12:12pm

Jill, mommy to Chloe, almost 5, Oliver, 3 & baby Ella born 12-1-11 !

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Registered: 09-02-2010
Wed, 02-09-2011 - 11:49am

It's true.. They mean well... It's jsut hard for anyone to understand who dosen't go thru it.. My Dh was not as upset as I was over the ectopic which really really upset me but then I put myself in his place and when you are told about how your wife can die from it then of course that is your concern... Either way, when I got my BFP with our "chemical pregnancy" and our ectopic it was still my baby regardless of how long I was pregnant...

Lets hope this up and down ride ends soon with healthy BFP's :)

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Registered: 07-07-2006
Wed, 02-09-2011 - 11:35am
My husband meant well and he told me the same thing, that if I'd never tested I would have just thought my period was late. But it is what it is and we are women who were carrying these tiny babies. Tomorrow is a new day. I'm thankful that I was able to get pregnant initially after 5 cycles and am taking the oppurtunity, while we wait for my next two cycles, to start prenatals. It makes me feel more confident that my body will be ready and able come April (so I hope) ! Pray for healthy BFPs!
Jill, mommy to Chloe, almost 5, Oliver, 3 & baby Ella born 12-1-11 !
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Registered: 09-02-2010
Tue, 02-08-2011 - 11:30am

I am so sorry! It is a terriable thing to go thru... I had an ectopic in October and at 6 weeks with a gorwing bean who was just in the wrong place I had to have surgery.... I am still waiting for my body to be back to normal and praying that I will finally get a BFP this month... I wish one for you and your family as well :) (((HUGS))) & All my LOVE

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Registered: 06-21-2006
Mon, 02-07-2011 - 5:36pm

I'm so sorry that you've been going through this.

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Registered: 06-27-2006
Sat, 02-05-2011 - 7:11pm
I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope that your body straightens itself out soon and you can get back to TTC. That wait to start TTC again is a tough one. I hope you get your BFP soon and that your doctor can help you STAY pg!
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Registered: 06-29-2010
Sat, 02-05-2011 - 10:21am
Hi and welcome. I'm so sorry for your loss. It's great you have a good doctor and got testing done. I hope you get some answers soon. HUGS
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Registered: 07-07-2006
Fri, 02-04-2011 - 12:58pm

Thanks ladies for all the warm welcomes. I know no one wants to have to go through this but it is comforting to know when someone understands how you really feel. I normally do homework/get online Wednesdays so I will be sure to be on here.

Jill, mommy to Chloe, almost 5, Oliver, 3 & baby Ella born 12-1-11 !
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Registered: 05-12-2008
Thu, 02-03-2011 - 9:17am

Hi Jill, welcome to the board.

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Registered: 03-25-2010
Thu, 02-03-2011 - 9:01am

Jill,

Hello and welcome to the board. I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. This board really is a great place for support and knowledge, so post away! ((HUGS))

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Registered: 12-21-2010
Wed, 02-02-2011 - 9:44pm

I am so sorry for your loss.

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