Where to begin...

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-17-2010
Where to begin...
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Mon, 09-20-2010 - 10:50pm

My name is Holly, and I am ready to ttc after an ectopic/miscarriage last month.

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Registered: 12-08-2009
Mon, 09-20-2010 - 11:13pm
Holly, welcome here. Im really sorry that you had to endure an ectopic loss last month. I know how heartbreaking a miscarriage can be... especially after you've had a previous healthy pregnancy.
All of us can relate to your anxiety and worries. It is totally normal and natural to be scared of trying again - I think it would be worse if you were NOT ambivalent about TTCing again.
Im glad you've found this board. I hope that it will be a source of support and encouragement to you during this difficult time. If you have any questions about what is normal, what to expect, how to deal, etc., please ask! We are all here to help each other.


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Registered: 09-24-2004
Tue, 09-21-2010 - 1:06am

((((HUGS)))

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Registered: 10-05-2006
Tue, 09-21-2010 - 12:52pm

I'm sorry about your loss. I will be trying again after my ectopic at the end of October. Your story of your daughter scares me because I had the MX shot after low rising betas, spotting and nothing found in the uterus on multiple ultrasounds. I wonder if I should have waited a few weeks before taking the shot. My betas got to 2300. It is too late now...

I also am excited and nervous about ttc again. I really really don't want another loss but who does? I am going to take the leap of faith and pray for a sticky bean who implants in the correct spot.

It is interesting your doctor said you can try right away but mine is requiring me to wait 3 cycles. I wonder if my RE is being more cautious because of the MXT shot?

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