1st Appt with Infertility Specialist
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|Wed, 07-14-2010 - 9:15pm|
Since I suspect there are many others out there that have more experience than me, I am looking for your pearls of wisdom. We have our first appointment on Friday with an OB specializing in infertility. At this point I have had two medically confirmed miscarriages (they drew blood) and two unconfirmed since starting TTC Nov'09.
I am looking for you help in trying to make sure we get the most out of this appointment possible. What questions do you ask, or wish you had asked? What tests would be worth my while to suggest for confirmation of working parts and pieces? What might they suggest that you found to be unhelpful (aside from "you have one beautiful child so obviously you will get pregnant again someday", if I hear that one more time...)
Any advice for hubby? He seems to be very relaxed thinking that this is all me. Even if it is, I want to keep him on my team as an active participant and decision maker. Lucky him if all his parts and pieces are working but there are some things I don't do without his full support.
Sorry we all have to be having this discussion, but thanks for any and all help you can offer.