The "BITE ME" Idea..

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Registered: 02-19-2004
The "BITE ME" Idea..
Thu, 04-01-2004 - 12:21pm
Since I put this down in waiting to test, I think alot of people are missing it.. I want to give those of you who might not have seen it a chance to respond.. It is a great way for all of us here TTC to get out a little frustration...

It goes something like this..

TO all the women who only have to buy one HPT, and not one everyother day.. BITE ME!!

or maybe

TO all 3 of my SIL who are pg and keep asking me "SO when are you going to have a baby..." BITE ME!!!! (I borrowed that one from laura or katie.. sorry.)

and last but not least

TO those who get to have sex like normal people, No temps, no legs in the air, no "GET HOME RIGHT NOW HONEY!!"... BITE ME!!!

So for anyone wanting to get some it out, don't hold back...




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Registered: 03-27-2003
Sat, 04-03-2004 - 3:38am
To the stores and manufacturers that sell HPTs for $7.99+ each in the stores when I can buy 20 for $12 on ebay.....BITE ME!

To people who judged me because of how I look (tattooed & pierced) and assumed that it was somehow my fault that I M/C ....BITE ME!

To my DH who says he wants to TTC and then thinks I'm nuts because I get mad after I do all the charting BBT, monitoring CM, etc. & tell him when I'm O'ing & he says he's too tired (etc.).....BITE ME!

To myself for not knowing I was PG until it was too late.....BITE ME!

And...To those who say it shouldn't "bug me as much" because I didn't know at the time what I'd lost....BITE ME BIG TIME!


DH Jeff 03/1997

DD Lahni 09/1999

DD Bette 10/02

MC 09/13/2003

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Registered: 09-29-2003
Sat, 04-03-2004 - 11:22am
Here are three more to add to my list --

to my computer (which crashed after I had already typed this message the first time, causing me now to have 3 additions instead of 2) -- Bite Me!

to my neighbor two houses down who is due June 11, the EXACT same date I was due who delights in telling me all about her pregnancy, showing me the renovations for the baby's room, sharing her latest ultrasound pictures with me, blah, blah, blah -- who, except for the day of the actual miscarriage, has never said she was sorry for our loss and just seems to have completely FORGOTTEN that we were due the same day -- A BIG BITE ME!

to all those people who assume you are doing just fine and therefore never really ask you if you are or ask you about your angel (I assume they mean well, but...) -- bite me.

Danelle (who is now officially 40 and feeling even crummier!)

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Registered: 04-08-2003
Sat, 04-03-2004 - 11:22am

To my pregnant co-worker, who knows what I have been through, and continues to rub her belly incessantly all day long...BITE ME!

(Sorry if this offends anyone here)...but to all the people who plan when they want their babies born....BITE ME!

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Registered: 11-08-2003
Sat, 04-03-2004 - 12:29pm

I have some...

To my doctor who says I am advanced maternal age-----bite me!

To my husband who says to relax and it will happen--bite me!

To my friend who got pregnant on one oops (I love her but)--bite me!

To my body that betrayed me--bite me!

To my DS who thinks I am not supportive of his likes--bite me!

To my hormones that drive me totally whacko each and every month and make me teary eyed and emotional at some of the most inopportuned times---bite me, bite me, BITE ME!!!!!!!!

yes I am hormonal right now....


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Registered: 03-26-2004
Sat, 04-03-2004 - 7:19pm
I love all of youre responses... heres mine....

To my MIL, who is excited to know we are trying again, but said.... "Dont tell me untill you are a few months along, I cant go through this again" BITE ME.

To my Mother, who I told about my m/c, and 3 hours later she is on the phone bitching to me about my fathers girlfriend(they have been seperated for 5 years) BITE ME. F****** BITE ME. Stop being so self centered and focus on BITING ME!!!

that felt good.

To my DH, who is totally understanding, loving gentle and kind, and agreed not to tell his mom that we have a BFP... Keep nibbling. :o)


~i~ 10/03

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Registered: 12-26-2003
Sat, 04-03-2004 - 8:41pm
Here I go!

To my 3 co-workers none married, none planning who are all pregnant and delight in talking about the pg's ALL day long...BITE ME.

To everyone who asks me if I am pg again yet...BITE ME.

To my dad and brother who never once asked if I was ok after m/c...BITE ME

To AF who reared her ugly face again 2 weeks after she had already visited me...BITE ME.

To my hormones & body that will not cooperate...BITE ME.

To everyone who says I lost my angel for a reason, and we are young and have plenty of time to keep trying...BITE ME BITE ME BITE ME!

That did help!


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Registered: 02-23-2004
Sun, 04-04-2004 - 12:19am
OK, Here goes:

To all of those who said it was "God's will" when I lost my baby....BITE ME!

To my MIL who asked me three weeks AFTER I lost my angel when I was due, then, when I broke down, took that moment to let me know that the SIL that I do not like, or get along with, was pregnant....BIG FAT BITE ME HARD!!!! (by the way, she never REALLY appologized, just said it was a "Senior Moment." Oh, BITE ME)

To the coworkers who don't understand that it is hard for me when I see another coworker, whom I love, do the prego waddle down the halls....BITE ME!!! (she is due two weeks after my EDD)

To all of the nosy ass people who constantly ask...So, When are you going to try again?



DH - Jeff

DS - Elijah 5/28/01

Lost Angel - 9/19/03 (EDD 4/17/04)


DH - Jeff - Ann 04/18/98
DS - Elijah - 05/28/01<
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Registered: 01-23-2004
Sun, 04-04-2004 - 9:28am

Got one more....

To my MIL, who never even called me or asked to speak to me while she was consoling her son after the m/c... nope, not once have I talked to that B!tch in the three months since the m/c.... BITE MY BIG WHITE A$$.


Stephanie M

DD- 12/14/94


~i~ 1/25/04


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Registered: 09-28-2003
Tue, 04-06-2004 - 10:33am

Melissa, this has to be the best "vent" thread ever! Great idea...and as I read through all of these posts, I went back and forth between having tears in my eyes, rage in my heart, and laughter in my soul. This reminds me once again how important it is for all of us to have found each other, and what a wonderful, warm, supportive group of women we have here.

I don't have much to add since you've all pretty much

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Registered: 09-25-2003
Tue, 04-06-2004 - 11:46am

You reminded me of another one....

To DH's Grandmother, who called our house after she heard about the m/c and said NOTHING to me when I answered the phone - just asked to speak to DH (and who also btw said NOTHING when DH told her I was pg in the 1st place - just responded by telling him that his bro's kids were coming to stay w/ her tomorrow and that she would probably never see our baby b/c she never sees the mom) BITE ME YOU SELFISH WITCH and realize that I don't want to see you b/c you're such a selfish manipulative BI-ATCH!


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