The "BITE ME" Idea..

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Registered: 02-19-2004
The "BITE ME" Idea..
Thu, 04-01-2004 - 12:21pm
Since I put this down in waiting to test, I think alot of people are missing it.. I want to give those of you who might not have seen it a chance to respond.. It is a great way for all of us here TTC to get out a little frustration...

It goes something like this..

TO all the women who only have to buy one HPT, and not one everyother day.. BITE ME!!

or maybe

TO all 3 of my SIL who are pg and keep asking me "SO when are you going to have a baby..." BITE ME!!!! (I borrowed that one from laura or katie.. sorry.)

and last but not least

TO those who get to have sex like normal people, No temps, no legs in the air, no "GET HOME RIGHT NOW HONEY!!"... BITE ME!!!

So for anyone wanting to get some it out, don't hold back...




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Registered: 04-11-2003
Tue, 04-06-2004 - 12:22pm
To the women at work who send out a happy email announcing their pregnancy at 4 FRIGGING WEEKS. And then go on to have a happy and stress free 9 months, their biggest concern being whether is's a girl or a boy. BITE ME!!!!

To my friend who said "Well, you guys can adopt!!" after I confided in her that we were having trouble conceiving and had experienced another loss. BITE ME!!!


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Registered: 07-28-2003
Tue, 04-06-2004 - 8:38pm
Oooo, I like this! May I?

To the pregnant 15 year old kid behind the register at Wal-mart, who, when she scans my purchase of 4 boxes of HPTs and two brands of ovulation kits, says between her gum smacking, "trying to get pregnant? Why not just do it?" I think you know what to do with that one... BITE ME HARD!

To my mother, who doesn't want me to get pregnant again for fear of me having another m/c, I love ya Mom, but BITE ME!

To my husband, who when he heard the BBT beeping this AM, asked, "Whats that noise?". After I explained it, he says to me, "Hon, I think you are trying to be too "scientific" about this. Oh, BITE ME BABY!

To my mother again, who when I was crying and relaying what DH said this morning, agreed with him. Oh, yeah, mommacita, BITE ME BITE ME BITE ME!!!

One more for my mother, who told me after the m/c in a loving voice, that she has no idea what I went through because she just thought about getting pregnant and BAM she was both times and had no problems, BITE ME!!!!!!!

Thanks, yeah I could get used to this!


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Registered: 03-04-2004
Tue, 04-06-2004 - 10:39pm
To my MIL who's response to my MC was "oh, that figures...that was probably the granddaughter that I have been wanting". (She has all grandsons except my daughter from a previous marriage) BITE ME YOU SELFISH EVIL WOMAN!

To my DH who thinks it is best to "move on" and try again....BITE ME!

To all my friends and family who are letting me grieve alone...BITE ME!

To everyone who thinks that there is no reason to grieve...BITE ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!

To all the women who have been through this and understand...thank you!!!!!!


DD 1/6/92

DS 12/3/96

~i~ 3/8/04

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Registered: 03-21-2003
Tue, 04-06-2004 - 11:06pm

Guess it is my turn....

To my aunt that told me 'maybe the baby was messed up' and that is why I m/c....Bite me!

To my sister who went to the U/S and Dr with me when they found no h/b and left me crying on the MIDWIFE's shoulder and didn't say a darn word...BITE ME!!

To the same sister who is always saying it is sooo hard having fertility problems...hello, you have to have sex to get preg. You DON'T have a problem!! Bite me!

To my dh who never thinks about the 'important' days. BITE ME!

To my dh for saying that I should be happy with the one we have! BITE ME!

To my inlaws for never acknowledging there was even a loss. BITE ME!

To my exuncle that molested me and made me have so many issues. I hope you die!! BITE ME!!

To life at the moment who has my aunt dying in the hospital. BITE ME!

Thanks I needed that! Crystal

You can chase a butterfly all over the field and never catch it. But if you sit quietly in the grass it will come and sit on your shoulder.~Anonymous

Mom of Xavier (3) and ~i~ lost 7/24/02 (edd 3/9/03)

Wife to Brandon (25)

Co-Cl of TTCAM

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Registered: 03-21-2003
Tue, 04-06-2004 - 11:11pm

I forgot one...

To the lady who I was talking to at office max and was dogging black people only for me to tell her that dh is black and insisted to know WHY on earth I had married a black guy instead of a white one.....ummmmmm none of your D@mn business!!! BITE THE HELL OUT OF MY @SS!!!

You can chase a butterfly all over the field and never catch it. But if you sit quietly in the grass it will come and sit on your shoulder.~Anonymous

Mom of Xavier (3) and ~i~ lost 7/24/02 (edd 3/9/03)

Wife to Brandon (25)

Co-Cl of TTCAM

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Registered: 03-21-2004
Wed, 04-07-2004 - 11:05am
Can I just second everyone's BITE ME?

Man, there are some idiots out there, aren't there?

To my mom for making me feel WORSE instead of better, and for saying "no one in my family has EVER had a m/c" - BITE ME BIG TIME!


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Registered: 02-19-2004
Wed, 04-07-2004 - 11:12am
TO AF!!!!!

Who arrived 2 days early, and let me waste a HPT with my wishful thinking... BITE ME BIG TIME!!!!


~i~ 02/11/04

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Wed, 04-07-2004 - 4:42pm

OK I have more....

to my idiotic immature co-worker who knows I had a mc and says... just have sex everyday... whatever! like I don't know thats part of the equation... and like we're not!---

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Registered: 01-13-2004
Wed, 04-07-2004 - 5:47pm
To everyone who has been told that we recently found out that the twins were Downs babies and then have responded, "See, God did have his reasons." BITE ME!

To all who follow that one up with, "Have they told you that the Downs is because you waited too long to have a baby? Reminder you f*cking idiot: I was not married until 3 years ago. We started right away. BITE ME BIG.

To the one super moron who asked whether I am getting my tubes tied or my husband is having a vasectomy. BITE ME.


Mommy to THE GIRLS

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Registered: 12-09-2003
Thu, 04-08-2004 - 2:12am
I am in alot of pain right now, because I m/c today. But reading this board has helped me to laugh a little through my tears. So here goes...

To my friend's cousin who got pregnant at 17, and despite not eating or gaining a pound, had a beautiful daughter she could care less about, who her mother takes care of, while the mother goes to school on a full scholarship as a "single mother," and lives rent free in her grandmother's house by herself WITHOUT the little girl.....BITE ME!

To my mom, who meant well, but said, "maybe you weren't really pregnant," I love you so much, but for that comment... BITE ME!

For all the friends who've had babies in the last two months.... BITE ME!

To my DH who said he was sad, but didn't cry with me.... BITE ME!

To the aerobics instructor who was doing abdominal crunches and high impact step aerobics while 8 1/2 months pregnant, while I can't even do normal activities.... BITE ME!

To all the celebrities who sport the "bump" like an accessory... BITE ME!

To all the women who abort babies that someone out there would desperately want.... BITE ME!

There, maybe that will help.