The "BITE ME" Idea..

Here is my biggest one!

To the woman on my Playgroup board who "somehow" ended up pregnant when her daughter was just 9 months old, and who complained everyday how she didnt want to be pregnant and was hoping to "just start bleeding" And who was hoping that she would "have to have a d/c" after her ultrasound the other day (She posted this even AFTER myself and two other woman at our playgroup board lost our babies)AND who had the NERVE to post and say "Where are all the other prego mommies...i know im not the only one, am i?", a day after we posted our losses. AND who is now typing in BLUE because she wants our "vibes" for a boy, she has 3 girls...I think I speak for many when I say BITE ME!!!!!

P.S. I told her that I would trade her my d/c for her healthy baby if she really wanted it that bad!!

I'm so glad I found this board.

Thanks for letting me rant!

- (No offence I have tremdous amounts of respect for those who would save our lives...even if it means turning into a emotionless zombie) - To the emergency ward Surgeon who told me it was too late for a D&C then asked me, while popping his bubble gum if I had "calmed down yet" after completing my m/c in a cold sterile hospital room, with only my DH holding my hand (Love that man!) To you doctor I say BITE ME!

- To my loving family who truely are supportive but have a habit of saying things at the wrong time. Like my Dear sister "Hey you might never be able to carry a baby to term...I'll carry it for you" (Lovely idea you clubhopping smoking freak) - ( I know she means well) BITE ME!

- To the makers of HPT's and Fertility Monitors - Bloody swindlers. Thank you for making a great product. Is it absolutely necessary for us to pay a king's ransom to obtain these tools?! For the 300$+ a year I spend on these disposables - BITE ME!

- To the cashier at the shoppers drug mart - (again I know she means well) who asks me "Oh! a pregnancy test - how exciting, that'll be $17.87 please!" and my only thought in my head is "yes how exciting, haven't you ever thought it odd, that I'm in every week buying the same product and how exciting that must be you freaking twit!" - BITE ME!

- To my DH's immature friends who said stupid things because they just are too young to know what to say - IE "You can always adopt" AGH! - BITE ME!

and lastly to all the people I run into who pat my tummy and say "wow you're getting big"

then quickly excuse themselves to let me fight a new batch of tears that comes in onslaught alone because instead of doing the decent thing of apologizing and perhaps letting me grieve a little with the support of those so called friends, the scurry off like it was the fashion faux-pas of the week - GRR A GREAT BIG BITE ME!

(Note, no offence to any that might have been offended, nothing meant by it - just a woman in need of screaming her head off)

~ Chi Deylan

^i^ April 12, 2004

To my closest friend at work who I tell everything to and knows that i mc in feb and my mom died last week but still told me "don't get too excited yet" when I told her about BFP....Bite Me I'll get excited if I want to, I think i deserve it.

To my sister....For ignoring completely the fact that I told her I was pg again...no congrats, or I'm happy for you...no she just changes the subject...BITE ME.

To my other so called friend who's first question was "You aren't going to tell you ds are you? You know, just in case." Well if I m/c again he will find out and then he never gets the chance to be happy--just sad...(he wants a sibling soooo bad)so BITE ME

To my dh who doesn't want to get excited just in case we have another mc....BITE ME BIG TIME.

That's all for now.

Cinnamon

ds 3/97

~i~ 2/04

EDD 12/23/04

LOL...I just wanted to be # 90 on the BITE ME thread so here goes

to everyone who has said stupid, insensitive, down right DUMB ASS things to me and all my fella sistas who unfortunately have had to endure a m/c

BITE US HARD!!!!

Jen