Darn it! Wasn't prepared for that.

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Registered: 10-20-2008
Darn it! Wasn't prepared for that.
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Fri, 11-11-2011 - 1:07pm
Had my post miscarriage/d&c appointment today. Doc said I should wait for two AF's before TTC again. D*mm it!! I was not expecting that, I thought we would get the green light after AF finally comes back. I'm pretty disappointed, I really wanted to start trying again asap. :(

Shawn 
Mom to DS, July 2009
Expecting our little girl after three m/c - EDD 11/29/12

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Registered: 01-22-2010
Fri, 11-11-2011 - 2:07pm

I don't like to advise against Dr's orders but there isn't really any reason to wait before tryin again, they generally just say that for dating purpose. As long as you are ready emotionally, go for it!

Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

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Registered: 10-20-2008
Fri, 11-11-2011 - 3:25pm
That's kind of what I thought. I kind of wish I would have asked her what her reasons for waiting were. I really like my doctor and respect her opinion, and almost feel bad for thinking about going against her advice, but I am really anxious to start trying again. I've been having a lot of pain in my back and my lower right side and she thinks its from the endo. If the endo is getting worse, I'm even more anxious to get pregnant while I can just in case the endo starts to hinder it. Ahhhh, decisions, decisions...

Shawn 
Mom to DS, July 2009
Expecting our little girl after three m/c - EDD 11/29/12

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Registered: 01-22-2010
Sat, 11-12-2011 - 12:57am

Maybe have a couple of cycles of not tryin but not preventing?

Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

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Registered: 05-13-2010
Sat, 11-12-2011 - 7:58am
It's so frustrating when things are not on our schedule. I think that is one of the worst things about ttcam is not having control over anything and being patient.
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Registered: 06-28-2010
Mon, 11-14-2011 - 11:02pm
I agree .... I usually wait One cycle...

Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers