Okay, I can breathe now

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Registered: 12-30-2006
Okay, I can breathe now
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Thu, 03-31-2011 - 6:25pm

I had my spot compression mammogram and breast u/s this afternoon. The radiologist says it's just a lymph node! Yay! I'm so relieved!

I didn't realize how much DH was worrying about it until he pulled me to him and gave me a huge, long, hard hug and whispered "I love you so much.". He's so stoic about these things, and this makes me think he's felt a lot more confusion and sadness about our m/c's than he's let on. I hate that we as a society make men feel like they need to keep their emotions to themselves.

Now on to more TTC! Thank you all so much for your prayers!

BTW- While

--Wendy
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Registered: 06-27-2006
Thu, 03-31-2011 - 6:54pm
That's fantastic news! I'm glad that everything looks good and that you and your DH can stop holding your breath. I do believe that men just don't always know how to express their feelings, and I wish that society didn't have those "rules" for men to hold in their emotions.

I hope that with that mammo out of the way, you can focus more on TTC and get that BFP this month!
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Thu, 03-31-2011 - 7:32pm

So happy to see this!!

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Registered: 10-05-2006
Thu, 03-31-2011 - 8:18pm
great news! :)
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Thu, 03-31-2011 - 9:25pm
thank goodness it wasn't anything worse!

And what an awesome article ;)


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Fri, 04-01-2011 - 11:39am
That's wonderful Wendy!! (and interesting about the articles too!)
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Fri, 04-01-2011 - 4:37pm
Wendy, that is SUCH great news :)

I have heard the same thing about regular BD - even when you don't feel like it. You almost always are glad you did it once you get started!

I know I feel better about our relationship when our sex life is going well although we all know while TTC DTD can be kind of a chore sometimes!
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