RE UPDATE GOOD AND BAD NEWS..

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RE UPDATE GOOD AND BAD NEWS..
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Mon, 08-01-2011 - 12:47am
So I went in and waited and wAited and waited ... Then finally RE comes in and we start talking , he explained to me that what he thinks happened is when I had a big bleed @ 14 weeks infection got up there ( I had bv and didnt even know till the Thursday before losing kloie.) and the doctor thinks that because at that point my cervix was soft and opened up a little bit that infection got up there and then my cervix hardened up like it was supposed too and the infection stayed in and that's what caused early contractions my cervix to open and everything... He did give me the ok to try again ... Which scares me to death not so sure bout that yet ... There is just a lot of medical bills from kloie and past mcs that I am still paying on and know that they are just going to rack up again with new baby, believe me mentally I am ready now but physically I want to still give my body a few cycles and I still need to get baby weight off :/ anywho sorry for being MIA. Lately I have been so busy with my new job.. love it though I was ready for a change :) also they will start monitoring my cervix @ 12 weeks and do the cerclage about the same time just to keep that part covered I will also be screened for bv at first appointment and every two weeks after ... I'll do metformin for two months before and during pregnancy and baby aspirin and progesterone... They also said that I have starting stages of pcos :/ and will need to keep up on my excersise routine ...I've lost 15 lbs since kloie but still need to loose at least 10 more before trying again:D any thoughts or reccomendations on this would be great ... Thanks ladies:D

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Mon, 08-01-2011 - 1:48am
No thoughts or recommendations, but I'm so glad that the doctor has a plan for you and that you are pacing yourself and will try again when you and your DH are good and ready to try again. And congratulations on losing 15 pounds! That's fantastic! Keep it up!
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Mon, 08-01-2011 - 9:33am

Sounds like you had a good appt, it always feels good to have a definite plan in place for whenever you feel ready to begin it. Hope the weight loss continues. I think about you alot

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Mon, 08-01-2011 - 10:55pm

thanks ladies i have been having the hardest time grieving i have times that i feel like i dont grieve properly does that make since? i have been so depressed that i had to switch depression meds! I literally go to work gym home everyday! I hate it! I just want that little baby in my hands for good not a few hours! I miss her so much! It will be 3 months tomorrow and believe me its starting to kick in that I will never get her back :( if that makes since! I just miss being pregnant with her! Her little flutters and kicks its so hard! But with all you ladies i do much better :) i need to get on more often and chat!

~Jessica~

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Tue, 08-02-2011 - 8:30pm

Only you know when the time is right to really try again. I totally understand the pressures of finances and I wish we didn't have to consider that when trying to have children. I say that if your body/mind needs a few more cycles then let your body rest.

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Tue, 08-02-2011 - 10:46pm
Thanks so much:D you ladies make me feel so much better:D

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Sat, 08-06-2011 - 5:11pm

I'm glad you have a plan in place for you when you do ttc and get pg again.

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Sun, 08-21-2011 - 10:04pm
Sounds like your doC has a good plan for you. I know it's hard to even start thinking about TTC again. I wish all the best for you. HUGS, will be thinking about you.
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Mon, 08-22-2011 - 2:56pm
Good news about the plan he has set for you.. Hugs!! Hope things get better for you to ttc again when your ready

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