So annoyed...

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Registered: 10-09-2012
So annoyed...
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Sun, 12-02-2012 - 12:07pm
My cousin, 12 years junior to me, just had her baby yesterday...and she took my baby name. Yep, so 2 weeks after my due date from the m/c, she has a healthy little girl named Madalene, after my grandmother. What makes it worse is that my dh and i have been trying for 2 years, married for 6, both work hard and have built a life for ourselves and are ready for a family. She got knocked up by a guy who was separated from his wife, and can't marry her b/c she'll lose her medicaid status. She has never held a job, is completely supported by her parents, and had no problem at all conceiving (this is her 2nd child - my aunt and uncle made her give the 1st up for adoption - btw, the father was a different guy). I know this is not the child's fault and that my cousin didn't take the name on purpose, but man, I don't understand the universe with this one. Ugh. Thanks for letting me rant.
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Registered: 05-04-2012
In reply to: grbaby
Sun, 12-02-2012 - 4:30pm

I am so sorry.  I can understand how it feels so frustrating.  Just keep doing what your doing and focus and dh and yourself.  I know easier said than done.  I need to take my own advice here.  I hope you feel better soon...

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In reply to: grbaby
Mon, 12-03-2012 - 7:24am

Ugh! Im so sorry! :(

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In reply to: grbaby
Mon, 12-03-2012 - 9:48am
That happened to me after my loss. Not by someone close but after the loss, the boy name we had picked out was suddenly everywhere. I'm sorry that happened to you. I agree just focus on you <3

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